Dating post surgery!

[CristyRNY 4]

I'm learning that through bad relationships and being fat my confidence is gone!! I'm way too shy to date!! Boo!!

[Indigo1991 1,612]

CristyRNY, check out my post "Got naked, nobody died of shame".... Might give you hope!!!

You're not the only one on the site to have experienced this lack of confidence, but many are overcoming it. I am 8 months out, I was where you are (although I am way older) but my sleeve has transformed me and my life beyond recognition. To the extent I got naked last weekend for the first time in years with some I have lusted over for years and can t believe it .... Hence, my post!

Don't lose hope, you are just at the beginning ....

Edited December 21, 2013 by Indigo1991

[Butterthebean 8,146]

Thank goodness I'm married. Christy....I can only imagine. I think in time it will get much easier. It will definitely take some trial and error....some testing of the waters.....and some grit and courage. But don't hold yourself back. Enjoy the new life.

[Indigo1991 1,612]

BTB, great pic!

[CristyRNY 4]

Thanks I'm trying out being a red head! So far it's boosting my self esteem!

[Ms24 8]

Thanks I'm trying out being a red head! So far it's boosting my self esteem!

it looks great!!!

[tallysfunny 363]

Jam out with your clam out girl. I have learned that if someone can't accept me at my worst then they sure as hell don't deserve me at my best!!

Your confidence comes with time and self appreciation and love.