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Hello Everyone! My name is Alexis , i am 21 years old from NJ and awaiting my first doctors appt this Wedensday! I am meeting with Dr. Bertha to dicuss Lab- Band surgery. I currently have a BMI of 45. In the past few months have had high blood surgar and High Blood pressure. I know it is time to do something. I have two children and a wonderful husband who is supporting my decison. I have done so many diets and gym memberships but i always gain it all back. I am a my heavest (256lbs) and it is very upsetting. I am very nervous about the surgery but i feel this is the best for me. if anybody has and words of encouragement or any pointers please feel free to pass them on!! Thanks!!!

- Alexis

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Hi Alexis!! I'm Alexandra, and also a patient of Drs. Abkin & Bertha. You're in great hands!! Just follow their instructions and pay attention to Linda's pre-op class, and you'll do just fine. :biggrin1:

LBT is here for questions and support when you have them. See you around! :clap2:

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Welcome Alexis, you've found a great place to find out about all the questions you may have. I myself am rather New here as well. I will be getting my Lap-Band 3/27/07!!! But you said you have two kids? I think you'll be all set as far as the Pain goes (lol) I've watched my Child when he was born, and all I can say is if my only choice to lose weight was go through something like that, ummmmm I don't think so!!!

You'll do fine!

-Rocko-

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Welcome Alexis!

The pre-op diet (if you're given one) is probably the hardest part of the surgery process, but you'll make it through and it will become a distant memory, as the weight comes off :)

Read through the threads here, and don't be afraid to ask questions. There are lots of "experts" on here, and even a couple of lapband surgeons who will answer your questions.

You're on your way!

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Thank you Rocko! Ur right after childbirth pain is nothing ... lol ... anyway congrats on ur surgery date ... keep me posted

- ALexis

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