Donna22 6 Posted December 13, 2013 any suggestions on how to make things move on out? I know my body is ready to have a bm, but it just won't happen. Surgeon says to do enema. I can't be the only overweight person who can't "reach" to do that, and my pride won't allow me to ask my hubby to help. This is so embarrassing, but I don't know what to do. I'm only Day 5 post-op, have been getting my Water in well, walking a little, getting along better each day, but I hafta go! Any ideas? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McButterpants 2,846 Posted December 13, 2013 I had the same issue - here's what my NUT had me do...Take some Metamucil and a good quality pro-biotic. The pro-biotic, while not a laxative, will have a laxative effect and should help get things going. About an hour after I took both, I was moving right along. I was at the 5 day mark when I called her and said I hadn't poo'd since before surgery - she was a little alarmed. You gotta get that poo out! :-) I'm 4 weeks out and I still need assistance with the Metamucil. Good luck! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
magtart 603 Posted December 13, 2013 If that doesn't work, try Miralax. It is tasteless and you can mix it into just about anything. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
suejersey 263 Posted December 13, 2013 I used Miralax about 2 - 3 days per week and now I am using a stool softener whenever things slow down. I am 14 months out and definitely my BM's are still not regular. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shells_Almost_There 357 Posted December 13, 2013 Milk of Magnesia saved me from the enema - I still have it in the cupboard because things will "stop up" from time to time still. I really hate being this irregular, but it's a price we pay. Good luck! 1 PdxMan reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Idlewood4 93 Posted December 13, 2013 I'm 4 days out,and I have the same problem. Hospital said narcotic pain killers are a big culprit. I am trying to keep the clear fluids goings, and stay hydrated. I'm walking. Starting yesterday, (once I was home and wiih Dr's. okay I started a stool softener, and a Gummy Fiber chew. I'm letting the Fiber chew melt in my mouth before I swallow it. I also moved to liquid Tylenol which seems to be managing the pain ok. Moving into the TMI category, I have passed some gas, and just a little liquid poo-twice. Labels said it could take 12 to 36 hours to work, so I'm just hoping. That's actually the cause of my worst pain right now. Good luck everyone. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PdxMan 4,292 Posted December 13, 2013 I did MOM daily for two weeks. Worked for me. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DirtyHarriett 94 Posted December 13, 2013 That was far and away my worst discomfort ! Milk of magnesia... Tastes terrible, worked great. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lsereno 2,525 Posted December 13, 2013 I used Colace stool softener. If things are really backed up, I needed something else to help it along. With laxatives and softener she sure to get your Water in. Lynda Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DirtyHarriett 94 Posted December 13, 2013 That was far and away my worst discomfort ! Milk of magnesia... Tastes terrible, worked great. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
luvzpitbullz 41 Posted December 14, 2013 I've been taking natural vegetable laxatives. Wal mart brand. They work great, no cramping, no running to the bathroom, just a good ol natural bm. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites