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MississippiQueen

By MississippiQueen, in Rants & Raves

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MississippiQueen    48

MississippiQueen
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No offense to most veterans on here, but sometimes we newbies would like to converse amongst ourselves. Which is primarily why I go to the forums marked BEGINNERS. :) Most people on this site are very helpful but some are just plain ol assholes. lol

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Terry Poperszky    2,784

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Well, you are in Rants and Raves now, so you are fair game ;)

I have noticed that very little attention is paid to which forum you are in on this board. You will get used to it. Suggestion, if you only want a specific audience to respond, politely ask that in your thread. And yes, some of us are assholes.

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Madam Reverie    2,958

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That's size-ist! Or is it weight-ist?!

I dunno.. I'll just shut up now :blink:

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MississippiQueen    48

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lol maybe..... just lookin for some real people who arent judgmental know-it-alls who put unsolicited dictionary definitions on the BEGINNER forums. And oh yeah, Im 38 yrs. old, not 12. Ive always been a rebel. #ranting#raving#reallynotabitch

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Madam Reverie    2,958

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lol yeah, if someone did that to me, I'd be feeling pretty patronised, too.

People don't mean to come across like that - to be fair - and most of the time.

It comes from a 'good place'.. (bit like the 'happy place' :blink: )

Try not to let it get to you. I always find bashing my head repeatedly on my keyboard often helps with the temporary 'OH FOR THE LOVE OF GOD!!!!' moments. :D

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Kattastic    114

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No offense to most veterans on here, but sometimes we newbies would like to converse amongst ourselves. Which is primarily why I go to the forums marked BEGINNERS. :) Most people on this site are very helpful but some are just plain ol assholes. lol

No offense taken, but I'm not a vet, I'm a newbie. Do I qualify as an asshole if I don't enable bad behavior? I qualify myself as a bitch sometimes, but I'm curious if I've crossed the line into the A-hole territory! :)

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1Day1Life4Now    882

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Hi Mississippi Queen. I'm from Mississippi too and more of a newbie than you. I won't have my surgery until February 2014. I'm still having issues with the preliminary 3 month supervised diet. So how is it going for you now?"

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stasea    10

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Hi ms queen I'm Stacie from the coast Biloxi area I had my surgery 11/19/13 doing great no problems saw doc today down 24lbs n counting lost total of 25 since I decided to do this in Sep love ur attitude haha that's us ms gals

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stasea    10

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Lost total of 45 lol since sep

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stasea    10

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Lol total of 45 since September

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