What Should I Tell My Boss

[Gardnergirl2 96]

^{A lot of people in my work know. I feel that by telling people, 1. it might inspire others to try to take their health more seriously and 2. It will hold me more accountble. I don't really care if they know.}

[Lady VS 1,147]

Hope your "procedure" went well for you yesterday. Personally, I would tell my boss and ask him or her to keep it confidential because you may need time off to get your fills. Something to think about.

[D_Carrimko 18]

My suggestion:

It sounds as though you wish to keep your procedure private. Thats certainly understandable.

So why not just say I'm going to be off on medical leave for a private matter?

Unless your boss is the medical department, they have no need to know the type of procedure you are having done.

IMO, you should not falsify any info, ( it could be used against you at a later date ) and you should request the leave be covered under FMLA if it applies to your employer.

Congrats on your upcoming surgery

Catfish, what an amazing success you have had. Great inspiration!

[Scylla 106]

Hmmm...I haven't told my boss yet and I don't plan to until I get a surgery date (which will be in the next week or two).

It hadn't occurred to me to NOT tell him I am having weight loss surgery but since I AM having my gall bladder removed and umbilical hernia repaired at the same time maybe I CAN leave that part out after all. I'm hesitant to tell him which surgery I am having (VSG) because most people don't know what it is and I am afraid of getting a really weird reaction when he finds out I am electively having 85% of my stomach removed.

[NancyintheNorth 112]

People ask...they shouldn't but they do! When I'm asked I say it's a small procedure, nothing life threatening and I absolutely lie. I've told them it's a hernia.

Why do people want to know. Whenever I've been told of an upcoming surgery or procedure I wish them health.

I don't think it's illegal for colleagues to ask, perhaps your employer it may be. It's just poor taste.

[ghogan1010 1]

I guess I understand the desire for secrecy but as a manager I'm going to be up front about the procedure and look forward to educating anyone on the process.

I'm treating the band as a form of artificial accountability and for me accountability is a huge part of this whole process. If I held myself accountable all these years I wouldn't have ballooned so the "new lifestyle" will raise some eye brows. I think it'll be easier to be honest and cause less anxiety long term.