Rude is never ok.

[futuremrsparker 288]

So, unfortunately, today I got to experience something that brought up past feelings of how people made me feel in school... Only this time it's BECAUSE of my weight loss. I got my new license today and took a side by side pic of my old vs. my new. I thought it was funny how different my face looked. Well, after posting it on Facebook, an old friend of mine made a very rude comment that actually sent me in to tears at work. I'm not easily shaken, but this really hurt. It taught me an important lesson though... Fat, skinny, black, white, tall, or short... People are people and will always find something to say about you. I just feel badly that he had to be so mean... I'm pretty down this afternoon because of him.

[xiomara8868 101]

He is so stupid.. like seriously if someone writes something like that to me ill explote but laughing at him.. because thats a hater.. dont feel bad for ignorant ppl.. and friends like that on your friends list... uuuppsss excuse me mamita but you dont need that type of junk.. delete ppl like that from your life please... dont let no one bring you down..

[futuremrsparker 288]

He is so stupid.. like seriously if someone writes something like that to me ill explote but laugthing at him.. cause thats a hater.. dont feel bad for ignorant ppl.. and friends like that on your friends list... uuuppsss excuse me mamita but you dont need that type of junk.. delete ppl like that from your life please... dont let no one bring you down..

Thanks.. And yes, he was promptly deleted. I was dumbfounded that someone would be so outright rude.

[wanttodelete 12]

hide him from your news feed or unfriend him. how rude

[mzshay35 215]

Sounds like jealousy!!!!

[cjoyce 187]

wtf is all I can say?!?! Why the heck did he even feel the need to comment? Just scroll on asshole. Sorry but this pissed me off for you!

[ajustice 484]

The older I get the more I feel the need to remove the negative from my life. Glad u deleted him. People judge no matter what. As many good folks as there are in the world there are the assholes out there too. You have made a amazing change to your life and u deserve support and to be able to show it to the world if that's what you want. Some people are just miserable and can't stand for anyone else to be happy or excited about stuff. Hold your head high girl u are doing great!!!

[Mid West 99]

Please tell him this – “Whilst being rude and making people feel like crap when we were at school, you obviously weren’t doing much learning. Your first sentence is correct.

However, in your second sentence, the word should be ‘you’re’ (an abbreviation of you are) not ‘your’.

What does ‘yeah for you’ even mean? Are you congratulating me or is this an affirmation of my very existence?

You do not start sentences with ‘but’ as it’s a linking word (it’s the same with ‘and’).

Can’t has an apostrophe between the ‘n’ and the ‘t’.

I am perfectly calm, just sharing my news with my ‘friends’ on Facebook which I hear is a perfectly normal thing to do.

Now, away with you and learn 1) some manners and 2) some grammar … oh yes, and as you said ‘Lol’."

[LindsJ83 56]

HAHAHA. UK-SLEEVER is hilarious! That's everything I was going to say. If someone can't be happy for you, then keep it moving! He should be a little more worried about his grammar than anything else...

[JenD 1]

I would do nothing but laugh at such a response. His jealously is glaring, which is embarrassing for him. And defriend. What a loser!

[CrisG 70]

I can't believe that!! Glad you deleted him!!

[staceyd 25]

Please tell him this – “Whilst being rude and making people feel like crap when we were at school' date=' you obviously weren’t doing much learning. Your first sentence is correct.

However, in your second sentence, the word should be ‘you’re’ (an abbreviation of you are) not ‘your’.

What does ‘yeah for you’ even mean? Are you congratulating me or is this an affirmation of my very existence?

You do not start sentences with ‘but’ as it’s a linking word (it’s the same with ‘and’).

Can’t has an apostrophe between the ‘n’ and the ‘t’.

I am perfectly calm, just sharing my news with my ‘friends’ on Facebook which I hear is a perfectly normal thing to do.

Now, away with you and learn 1) some manners and 2) some grammar … oh yes, and as you said ‘Lol’."[/quote']

That is the best response ever!!!!!!!!! Yes girl. Op there are haters in this world and you have to shrug them off. If e was a true friend he would be happy for you. Not saying stuff like that! Rise above it girl. You are among lots of people here who love ya! We support you!

[SoccerMomma73 1,867]

Please tell him this – “Whilst being rude and making people feel like crap when we were at school' date=' you obviously weren’t doing much learning. Your first sentence is correct. However, in your second sentence, the word should be ‘you’re’ (an abbreviation of you are) not ‘your’. What does ‘yeah for you’ even mean? Are you congratulating me or is this an affirmation of my very existence? You do not start sentences with ‘but’ as it’s a linking word (it’s the same with ‘and’). Can’t has an apostrophe between the ‘n’ and the ‘t’. I am perfectly calm, just sharing my news with my ‘friends’ on Facebook which I hear is a perfectly normal thing to do. Now, away with you and learn 1) some manners and 2) some grammar … oh yes, and as you said ‘Lol’."[/quote']

so is it just me or do y'all read her posts with an accent In your head???

HW 312, pre-op (RNY) 255, current weight 198

[Dorian 683]

so is it just me or do y'all read her posts with an accent In your head???

HW 312' date=' pre-op (RNY) 255, current weight 198[/quote']

I absolutely do!! Especially when I read the "whilst". My daughters speak with a british accent EVERYDAY at home and it kinda grows on you!

[Mid West 99]

Lol! Ok but it's not quite Downton Abbey, lol