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you just need a REAL man that's going to step up and approach you is all. I'll be ready in 75 more lbs.

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aww you're too cuute I'm knocked up now so don't think I'm getting hit on any time soon unless he gets into Pregos lol

LOL....well that was a turn I wasn't expecting. Congrats are in order. I guess you solved the problem so double congrats. :)

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LOL....well that was a turn I wasn't expecting. Congrats are in order. I guess you solved the problem so double congrats. :)

thanks Butter I've had a boyfriend for the last 3 years this thread was more about how I was getting hit on more often when I was heavier than now that I'm thinner. Not that I was looking for a man lol

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Just wanted to say congrats too! What an exciting development :)

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thanks Butter I've had a boyfriend for the last 3 years this thread was more about how I was getting hit on more often when I was heavier than now that I'm thinner. Not that I was looking for a man lol

I know. It seems some guys thought you were looking for volunteers. Lol.

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Just wanted to say congrats too! What an exciting development :)

thankies girlie I'm eggcited

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I know. It seems some guys thought you were looking for volunteers. Lol.

I guess they're entitled to interpret it how they see fit lol

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So if you are pregnant why are you asking why no one is approaching? it's obvious.

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I noticed don't get hit on more or less. But I guess since I got skinnier I am more approachable. More people ask for directions or the time or whatever. Maybe since I'm not trying to hide anymore it's to be expected.

And men are intimidated by beautiful women. They say no, but they are. :-) congrats on the pregnancy!! I'm still a year away from trying. But I'll be watching to see how sleeved pregnancy treats people.

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So if you are pregnant why are you asking why no one is approaching? it's obvious.

I'm just recently pregnant. And this tread wasn't me looking for a man it was just me making an observation on how when I was fatter I was more approachable that I am now that's all..

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I noticed don't get hit on more or less. But I guess since I got skinnier I am more approachable. More people ask for directions or the time or whatever. Maybe since I'm not trying to hide anymore it's to be expected. And men are intimidated by beautiful women. They say no, but they are. :-) congrats on the pregnancy!! I'm still a year away from trying. But I'll be watching to see how sleeved pregnancy treats people.

so far so good with my pregnancy I'm due in September so still a ways a way..

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