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Okay, so this is weird, but I'm wondering if this is normal... when I sit down these days, it's like my external genitalia is getting squished between me and the surface I'm sitting on, like pinched or just weirdly positioned. I never had this problem before losing 120lbs and I'm wondering if my thigh fat provided a cushion before, maybe. Lol, it feels so weird talking about this but it's just been the most bizarre thing. Can anyone else relate or is my body just playing tricks on me?

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I'm sorry, I don't have an answer to your problem...but I do think that this is possibly the best thread title ever. :P

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Lol I know, right? I was just like, "okay, how do I say this..." I don't think there even is an answer, though just today I heard about something called 'vaginal rejuvenation' like plastics for downstairs, and now I'm wondering if maybe my area is stretched out or something like the rest of my body. Not that it matters, I'm more than happy with that part of me, but it's just kind of awkward to be so aware of it every time I have a seat. It's like my body is determined to remind me that I have labias going on down there just in case I forgot.

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I think your theory about losing the extra thigh cushioning might be right on the money. I also can't help but wonder about massaging chairs, like at my pedi place... :D

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That's funny! I never understood what people meant when they joked about sitting on a vibrating washing machine, but now I totally get it.

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Well I have not lost enough weight yet, but oh boy something else to look forward too!

I did see a picture here a couple of days ago by a woman right before cosmetic surgery and the lady bits were, well they looked like they had once been fluffier?

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I can't tell if this is in the "lady" forum, but boys have something similar. Reduced fat means more out there to get pinched or sat on.

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I can't tell if this is in the "lady" forum, but boys have something similar. Reduced fat means more out there to get pinched or sat on.

Dude! You're in the powder room! Run quickly! **Gman backs out slowly**...Just came in to save my buddy, ladies.. :o

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Dude! You're in the powder room! Run quickly! **Gman backs out slowly**...Just came in to save my buddy, ladies.. :o

:D :D :D:lol: :lol: :lol:

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I can't tell if this is in the "lady" forum, but boys have something similar. Reduced fat means more out there to get pinched or sat on.

Indeed it is, but that's okay, I'm just happy *someone* can relate!

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I can see your bet and raise you…I have had a pannus for so long that my "ladybits" have flattened into a defacto shelf to support the pannus! Its a really attractive look! I have hopes that maybe, after plastic surgery and pannus removal the shelf will round out ::fingers crossed:::

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As you lose weight you will also be losing weight from your "ladybits" and they may become more lax or stretched looking; hence you sitting on them. You may want to consider a labiaplasty where they remove excess labia tissue, makes a world of difference.

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I can't tell if this is in the "lady" forum, but boys have something similar. Reduced fat means more out there to get pinched or sat on.

I have NO IDEA how I ended up in this room, but he speaks the truth, big time. LOL...I look down and I'm like, "holy crap, what is that thing!?"

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