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A random stranger walked up to me and said "Excuse me, I just wanted to tell you that you are beautiful. Are you spoken for?" Now I know my self esteem is not linked to this sort of attention but it sure was nice to hear this early into the game. I've had my share of attention even when I was heavy but its been years since even my man has complimented my appearance.

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Congrats. I haven't been sleeved yet but i can't wait. Like you i get hit on now also but i would love to express it as a skinny girl. Live life and congratulations again

Linda305

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Ely thats really cool :) i can tell by your profile pic that you are attractive. Im glad someone told you in person.

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How sweet

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Awww. Thank you both. I don't feel "attractive" but I'm learning to wear my dignity and express my joy! Energy is everything and I'm vibing!

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I agree, Ely, you are a really beautiful woman. So nice to hear you got such a nice compliment.

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How cool is that? Enjoy the glow :)

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Sadly I was hit on late last night by a gross smelly unwashed toothless gas station attendant in Maine.

I need to change the vibes I'm giving off.

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Sadly I was hit on late last night by a gross smelly unwashed toothless gas station attendant in Maine. I need to change the vibes I'm giving off.

That made me LOL :)

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