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Sorry for your loss. I lost my mom 2 years ago and she didn't get to see me have my surgery but I know she's looking down on me. She is one of the reason I wanted surgery. It saved my life.

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I'm so sorry for your loss Frank!!

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So sorry for your loss! My dad died in 1997, and my mom died last year. Losing a parent is so hard. I'm so glad she got to see the success on your WL journey. What a blessing.

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Frank I'm so sorry for your loss.

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I'm sorry for your loss.

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So very sorry about the passing of your mom. Both of my parents are gone but know they never leave you. Your mom is watching you and there for you every minute. Much love and prayers to you and your family.

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So very sorry about the passing of your mom. Both of my parents are gone but know they never leave you. Your mom is watching you and there for you every minute. Much love and prayers to you and your family.

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I lost my mom in 2004 when I was 32 years old. She passed away of heart disease at the age of 59. I still think about her every day. She is a huge reason I'm having this surgery. She got to see all 7 of her grandchildren born before she passed. I want to be able to see my grandchildren born and grow up and maybe even some great grand kids too. My hope is in The Lord and His grace is enough. I pray for healing for you and your family.

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I am so sorry about your mother. I just lost my Aunt in September. She was all I had left. My mother and her were twins and my mother passed in 2008. I get through knowing they are not in pain anymore and they are reunited.

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so sorry for your loss

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Thinking of you at this time. I lost my my Mum in 2011 after caring for her for over two years and then my Dad in 2012. I hid for almost a year feeling worthless and lost. I decided to get this surgery so I would be healthier for my own son my parents were only 64 and 65. I can still hear my Dad say where is the skinny girl in old photos I know he was only worried about me. But I know they are looking down smiling now that I making the changes needed, I still miss them terribly every day but I also know they would be pissed at me if I waisted my life. It takes a while but try to remember the good stuff xox

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