irisheyesrsmylng 40 Posted October 21, 2013 I threw out the junk I had, IM going to exercise today, I am going to my lapband doctor and if I gained, I will face the music and hopefully I will get a fill. I see my therapist today and will talk to her about how I am using food to deal. Onward and upward! 12 Christina.Rose, songtress, ☠carolinagirl☠ and 9 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
☠carolinagirl☠ 18,721 Posted October 21, 2013 whats done is done....what matters is right now... great post...just (believe) in yourself as you are fantastic and beautiful...remember that and treat yourself like you should be treated, as a goddess of health....make yourself well....eat good foods, exercise and live.. 3 Essence33, Sherlock1969 and Bandista reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
irisheyesrsmylng 40 Posted October 21, 2013 Thank you carolinagirl. You're saying stuff I should be telling myself. Thank you. Slow and steady wins the race.I can't expect to tell myself these things if IM not used to doing it, right? Isn't there a saying a journey starts with a single step? Well IM stepping 2 Bandista and ☠carolinagirl☠ reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
songtress 5 Posted October 21, 2013 I am doing the same thing starting over and this time I will be doing some things a lot different. I will continue to move (exercise more) like u said slow and steady wins the race... JUST TRUST IN YOURSELF U CAN DO THIS!!! 4 Sherlock1969, KAATNS, Essence33 and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ccsbulldog 59 Posted October 21, 2013 I find myself like you two. I've done a decent job but, I find that my old eating habits are creeping back in. too want to start over. Good luck in your journeys. 2 Sherlock1969 and Bandista reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Toddy 758 Posted October 21, 2013 That's one good thing about the band is you can start over!! Get a fill and get in the green zone!! Good luck to you all! 1 Bandista reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bandista 7,466 Posted October 21, 2013 Yippee! So happy you are finding this place of recommitment. Keg that switch in your head toggled in the right direction. I find fall is a good time for healing and hunkering down -- let's all work our you-know-what's off this winter and have something to Celebrate in the spring. And Irish Eyes, it sounds like you are really lining it all up -- glad you're going in for a fill and weaving in the exercise component, too. I have a feeling this is the secret to success. Best wishes to all -- you, too Bulldog and Songstress (hey, that sounds like the name of a band or a children's book!). 2 songtress and Essence33 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deehar1 10 Posted November 1, 2013 I'm starting over too. This coming Tuesday I have an appt with a new surgeon that will hopefully be of more help to me . I hope everything will be ok with my band as I haven't had a fill in over a year but because of eating improperly I have gotten stuck a few times. I would hate to do a revision but if given a choice I'd do lapband w/ plication. I'm going to start over like I just got banded. Like someone up thread said I think this Fall & Winter will be a great time to get back to business and I'm going to do it . 1 Bandista reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Christina.Rose 287 Posted November 4, 2013 What is plication? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Christina.Rose 287 Posted November 4, 2013 What is plication? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SandyM 1,956 Posted November 4, 2013 It's sort of modified version of sleeve..no cutting or removal. The fold the stomach in on itself and stitch it. I had it and not in the green but am doing great. Some have band and plication and never any fills 2 Deehar1 and ☠carolinagirl☠ reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deehar1 10 Posted November 4, 2013 It's sort of modified version of sleeve..no cutting or removal. The fold the stomach in on itself and stitch it. I had it and not in the green but am doing great. Some have band and plication and never any fills Congrats, SandyM, Yes, I had my surgery 3 years ago. At that time I hadn't heard of plication and was not offered that option. If I was I may have opted for that. I cannot see cutting off a piece of my stomach unless I was seriously ill. So I didn't want to do sleeve or bypass. Though I'm not putting them down it was just not for me. I have a friend that got the sleeve just this past June and she's already down over 60 lbs. I lost 50 lbs my first year and then it stopped & I maintained for over a year but because of stress & emotional eating & drinking I'm now on the regain . This is so sad. 1 kcintx reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kcintx 0 Posted November 9, 2013 My band is 5 yrs old!! I lost 140 pounds and have gained 80 of that back.. I'm so frustrated. I didn't get a fill for a year, too much emotional stuff and I use food for comfort. I lost my fill doctor *Dr. Garwood.. and now using Dr. Stephanie from Tyler.. I'm getting there, but have stretched out my pouch. Bad eating habits have creeped back in.. just extremely frustrated.. :-/ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deehar1 10 Posted November 9, 2013 Just start over. I know it's so much easier said than done but it can be done. I saw my new surgeon on Tuesday and I'm already back down 5 lbs. I know what it is to be frustrated and to eat out of stress and emotion. Your not alone. There is a lot of help here that's why I came back. Some can be a little harsh. I was on the site earlier this morning and witnessed an e fight but most are very helpful. And ready to give sound advice to help. Don't give up just go back for your fill, I was dreading it and embarrassed and ashamed but I bit the bullet and back on the losing track. You can do it. You lost 140 lbs, you can do it again. 2 bella68 and ☠carolinagirl☠ reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ireallywannabthin 286 Posted November 11, 2013 I'm doing the same thing. I didn't realize how much of a struggle it would still be after having the surgery, but we can't dwell on what we did wrong- let's accept it and change it! Best of luck!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites