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It's hump day again and time for a new topic. Figured this week it was the ladies turn.

How has weight loss affected your pinnacle moment? It seems that most women complain of having no to very little explosive moment during intimacy. Seems like mostly this has to do with frame of mind or a chemical imbalance but with living a healthier lifestyle and more self confidence, one would think that there would be bigger explosions, multiple explosions or at the very least an explosion in general when there used to be none. So, how has weight loss effected your "O"? Maybe it's heightened, maybe its worsened. Maybe with the new found you, you have thrown all your inhibitions to the wind and found out all kinds of things about your intimate side that you never thought possible.

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Hopefully this topic will help some lacking in motivation find new motivation.

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Paging CG......where are you girl?

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Honestly Im taken back when woman say their libido has decreased after being banded. I, and most of the gals I chat with, are the opposite. Libidos are revving and we are feeling 4x sexier than before.

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Um yeah, I could use some motivation. Motivate me. PLEASE. Thank you.

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And by the way....I would give my left arm to experience a "pinnacle moment"....and I'm a lefty so that says a lot! ;)

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Cute play on words, Mr. Junkie! So far, in my short experience with weight loss and the band I have to agree with Bliss. It has improved the va..va...voom factor in my house. I think losing weight gives us more confidence and makes us happy so we really NEED the "pinnacle moments" more than ever.

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What Steph, no story to share????

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Honestly Im taken back when woman say their libido has decreased after being banded. I' date=' and most of the gals I chat with, are the opposite. Libidos are revving and we are feeling 4x sexier than before.[/quote']

Just cause the libido is higher doesn't mean that the pinnacle moment is better than before weight loss. Need some elaboration please:)

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I never had an issue before or after. It's all about the right partner. ;p

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My multiple "pinnacle moments" have ALWAYS been extraordinary; however, I must say that I'm initiating more than EVER.... Better said, i AM initiating... Something that never happened before. Now hubby and I are more comparable in that sense. Thank GOD, cuz i live to please him.

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All I know is my sex drive has gone through the roof. I just wish my hubby was the same. But it nothing I can't take care of my self ... Lol

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All I know is my sex drive has gone through the roof. I just wish my hubby was the same. But it nothing I can't take care of my self ... Lol

So you don't know if your O's are any different?

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So you don't know if your O's are any different?

Thats a hard question. Depends... Is there adult beverages involved. I know mine are if I'm more relaxed. Another question. Is anyone else home. If we are alone then I think it is. And if I'm alone at home by myself it is. How can a "o" be not good. Lol. I love every one. Hehe

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What Steph, no story to share????

Let's just say I'm loving my band. B)

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