What's wrong with wanting to see a stripper?

[TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280]

Tiny I am so sorry you are in the situation that you are in' date=' keep you head up. I relate in someways as to what your husband is doing. My ex was five years younger than I. Remember I said ex. I caught him in bed with another woman who was only 6 years older than his oldest, if that much. Well, he asked me to give him sometime to work it out, about getting a divorce. Papers were served within two weeks of that conversation. It tore me up, but I got the best attorney and got everything I wanted. Then a year later I met my last husand and had the most wonderful 12 years of my life, as it seems he did to. My ex went on to marry his alcoholic girlfriend (he also became an alcoholic) a few months after I got married. Karma does have a way of coming full circle. She continues to dissapear and sleeps with other men, ex has had a heart attack, now diabetic, cancer, and full blown emphysema. She has been diagnosed with full blown cirrhosis of the liver. In the meantime he still tries to control her because he wants to strut around crowing about "look at my catch, I've got a younger woman". But for that control he lost all the respect of his children and friends. You are a survivor and there is something better for you out there for you. Keep your head up.[/quote']

Thanks I know to some its no big deal but to me it's like I'm missing out since I married young & it's like the only person I ever known is my hubby.

[oldoneyoungagain 200]

Thanks I know to some its no big deal but to me it's like I'm missing out since I married young & it's like the only person I ever known is my hubby.

You have become your own women which was bound to happen. You really didn't have a chance to actually find yourself as a young woman. You went from living with your parents probably into your own home taking on responsibilities of being a wife, mother, etc. Now you know there is more out there and I don't blame you for not wanting out of the abuse. All will be okay once everything comes into place.

[TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280]

You have become your own women which was bound to happen. You really didn't have a chance to actually find yourself as a young woman. You went from living with your parents probably into your own home taking on responsibilities of being a wife' date=' mother, etc. Now you know there is more out there and I don't blame you for not wanting out of the abuse. All will be okay once everything comes into place.[/quote']

Thanks