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Hey i just need to vent!! this process is getting tooo loong for me at this point evrything is done got cleareance from evrything all my tests done so now i have sleep apnea an im waiting for a cpap machine so i call my surgeons office to schedule my second consult to keep things moving and now i have to be a crrtain amount of time using the cpap and have that documented so i can see the surgeon but that wasnt in the checklist they gave me i didnt know that using the machine had had anything to do with my second consult im just worried by the time i use the machine im going to gain the weight that i have lost so far and when the time comes hell be like oh! Another delay liquid diet for 4 weeks cause you have to lose weight just getting really anxious to get this over with cause i know when i get discouraged i fell off the wagon and the excitement fades away i think if by the end of the year i dont have a date im not gonna go through it sorry really sad right know just needed to let it out :(

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Go ahead...let it out. I remember the aggrivation with my dr's office prior to surgery too! I could have smacked the scheduler in the mouth more than once for making me jump througth hoops I thought were NUTS!

Hang in there... it'll happen. Just do as told and give it time. Althought I have to admit patience is NOT one of my strong points...so I totally understand!

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I am so sorry to hear that things keep popping up that slow down the process. I remember in January thinking it would be forever away but its finally here. Tomorrow is my surgery. How long has it been for you since you made the first call for an appointment? Try not to get too discouraged. I was supposed to be in July but my insurance didn't like one of my monthly supervised diet notes so it held things up a little. I thought it was the end of the world at that time but I do believe everything happens for a reason and I think now, this time is better. All doctors are different. I did not even need a sleep test and my liquid diet was only 3 days prior to surgery. I do believe this will all work out to benefit you. Its okay to vent! Thats why we are here. Take care!

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Go ahead...let it out. I remember the aggrivation with my dr's office prior to surgery too! I could have smacked the scheduler in the mouth more than once for making me jump througth hoops I thought were NUTS!

Hang in there... it'll happen. Just do as told and give it time. Althought I have to admit patience is NOT one of my strong points...so I totally understand!

Thanks so much! Yes the scheduler is so hard to reach she is always either busy or in vacation omg! Such a hassle evry time os something different! I appreciate your advice thanks :)

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I am so sorry to hear that things keep popping up that slow down the process. I remember in January thinking it would be forever away but its finally here. Tomorrow is my surgery. How long has it been for you since you made the first call for an appointment? Try not to get too discouraged. I was supposed to be in July but my insurance didn't like one of my monthly supervised diet notes so it held things up a little. I thought it was the end of the world at that time but I do believe everything happens for a reason and I think now' date=' this time is better. All doctors are different. I did not even need a sleep test and my liquid diet was only 3 days prior to surgery. I do believe this will all work out to benefit you. Its okay to vent! Thats why we are here. Take care![/quote']

Thanks for your kind words i appreciate itits so hard because doing all these things is time consuming my surgeon asks for a lot of preop tests and consults but on the other hand i think the more he knows about your body the better so he knows what is he getting into beore surgery but his office is awful! And congratulations on your day! my best wishes for a quick recovery blessings :)

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Think positive & think will work out.

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Think positive & thinks will work out.

Thanks for your advice tinymami i really hope so its so overwhelming im really discouraged but trying to stay positive :)

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Thanks for your advice tinymami i really hope so its so overwhelming im really discouraged but trying to stay positive :)

I know but you have to be on top of your game. Off topic but my son is special need & since he is 3 he is able to get free diapers & a special need stroller but after getting the run around from the company not the doctors. I went down to the doctor office to make the nurse find a company that deals with kids diapers & get moving with his. Stroller. He bangs his head & I love him to much. I fight for all my kids especially him. So fight for what you need & want like me. I don't give up.

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