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I'm going threw an emotional state of mind. I don't feel like eating much counting calories getting on line. I want to be left alone. I want to think about my life & what I'm going to do. My bills are much less & in the mean time let him(hubby) pay my bills. By the time next year comes I should be all done & if there is anything left I will be paying it off. I can & will struggle for my kids & I won't give up on them. I had them & I love them. Not being around doesn't mean I don't care about the group or others. I'm in pain & I'm hurt & I'm not thinking straight so I need time to think. I love you all :)

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I'm so sorry you add feeling so down. Have you choose someone to talk to about it? Is there one thing that is causing most of your stress? Reach out to others and left them help carry what ever this is your going through. Feel free to message me any time.

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Hang in there Mami life happens to us all u can overcome this. We're praying for u and ur quick return!!! (HUGS)

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I'm going threw an emotional state of mind. I don't feel like eating much counting calories getting on line. I want to be left alone. I want to think about my life & what I'm going to do. My bills are much less & in the mean time let him(hubby) pay my bills. By the time next year comes I should be all done & if there is anything left I will be paying it off. I can & will struggle for my kids & I won't give up on them. I had them & I love them. Not being around doesn't mean I don't care about the group or others. I'm in pain & I'm hurt & I'm not thinking straight so I need time to think. I love you all :)

Mami, we're all pulling for you...youre absolutely doing the right thing.

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hang in there sis, be strong and keep a positive mind...there is always a rainbow after a storm believe me!

we are here if you need us!

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Mami. I'm sorry this is happening to you : ( I've been through very similar situation... I just want to let u know u are in my prayers!!! I know the road seems long, hard and u feel alone and are probably feeling overwhelmed as well but it WILL get better in time and u will come out a stronger woman that ur kids will look up to! Just take it day by day... I am always here if u need a shoulder to cry on or just want to vent feel free to PM me anytime! I hope things start to look up for u!!!

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Mami. I'm sorry this is happening to you : ( I've been through very similar situation... I just want to let u know u are in my prayers!!! I know the road seems long' date=' hard and u feel alone and are probably feeling overwhelmed as well but it WILL get better in time and u will come out a stronger woman that ur kids will look up to! Just take it day by day... I am always here if u need a shoulder to cry on or just want to vent feel free to PM me anytime! I hope things start to look up for u!!![/quote']

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