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We are separating hubby true colors are coming out. Had to file domestic violence over 6 cops last night. Children screaming scare. He wants me out but I'm waiting for housing to find me a place & I can't leave till then. We r doing it by court.DNA testing & all it's time to get the fuck out!!! Not in the streets but I have to wait less then 1 year. Plastic surgery is not top priority. I need to go

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We are separating hubby true colors are coming out. Had to file domestic violence over 6 cops last night. Children screaming scare. He wants me out but I'm waiting for housing to find me a place & I can't leave till then. We r doing it by court.DNA testing & all it's time to get the fuck out!!! Not in the streets but I have to wait less then 1 year. Plastic surgery is not top priority. I need to go

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Mz Shay

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We are separating hubby true colors are coming out. Had to file domestic violence over 6 cops last night. Children screaming scare. He wants me out but I'm waiting for housing to find me a place & I can't leave till then. We r doing it by court.DNA testing & all it's time to get the fuck out!!! Not in the streets but I have to wait less then 1 year. Plastic surgery is not top priority. I need to go

I'm so sorry you've had to go through that. Are you ok?

SD:8/21/13

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You are strong woman, you can do it! I know it isn;t easy with 3 kids... keeping my fingers crossed for you!

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It doesn't make it better but I'm sorry :-(

HW:358 DOS:338 CW:275 SD:1/28/13

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I'm so sorry all this is happening. Is it a sudden change n he is acting like this or is it something that has been going on for a while?

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We are separating hubby true colors are coming out. Had to file domestic violence over 6 cops last night. Children screaming scare. He wants me out but I'm waiting for housing to find me a place & I can't leave till then. We r doing it by court.DNA testing & all it's time to get the fuck out!!! Not in the streets but I have to wait less then 1 year. Plastic surgery is not top priority. I need to go

Keep safe...is he locked up? Can you get a restraining order?

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I'm so sorry all this is happening. Is it a sudden change n he is acting like this or is it something that has been going on for a while?

He has been like this for a while. Last night is when the devil inside him came out. He deny my kids saying find the "fathers of your kids"! This time it was in front of his adult son. Idk where I got the strength from but I did a karate kick on him twice. I know I should never put my hands on anyone. I got so up set. I punch him smacked him & was choking him. For a moment I lost it then all the sudden I thought of my kids & if I kill him I won't see my kids again so I came back to reality. I didn't know I'm able to harm someone. I let the best of me take over & I'm glad I'm not doing time in jail.

He is accusing me of even sleeping with my daughter "virgin" boyfriend. I'm not afraid of him but he is getting me up set & I'm just waiting for the day housing finds me a place to live so I can move my mom with me & if I'm not getting SSD yet I can try to find any job to support my kids.

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It doesn't make it better but I'm sorry :-(

HW:358 DOS:338 CW:275 SD:1/28/13

Thanks just saying it makes me feel better. I appreciate it.

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Good luck

Mz Shay

Thanks

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I'm so sorry you've had to go through that. Are you ok?

SD:8/21/13

I'm ok. I been crying a lot but I will be ok.

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You are strong woman' date=' you can do it! I know it isn;t easy with 3 kids... keeping my fingers crossed for you![/quote']

Thanks I know I can do it also.

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Tiny I have been following your post for a while and all I have to say is I am soooooo proud if you! I work at advocacy center for victims of domestic violence and I can tell by your post that this has been a Long hard road for you. Keep your head up girl If you need any support or help with were you might turn for help in your state please feel free to message me. This is the beginning of another new you! You will have your plastic surgey someday and it will feel even better because you will be in a happy healthy spot in you life.

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He has been like this for a while. Last night is when the devil inside him came out. He deny my kids saying find the "fathers of your kids"! This time it was in front of his adult son. Idk where I got the strength from but I did a karate kick on him twice. I know I should never put my hands on anyone. I got so up set. I punch him smacked him & was choking him. For a moment I lost it then all the sudden I thought of my kids & if I kill him I won't see my kids again so I came back to reality. I didn't know I'm able to harm someone. I let the best of me take over & I'm glad I'm not doing time in jail.

He is accusing me of even sleeping with my daughter "virgin" boyfriend. I'm not afraid of him but he is getting me up set & I'm just waiting for the day housing finds me a place to live so I can move my mom with me & if I'm not getting SSD yet I can try to find any job to support my kids.

Good for uou chilfren &parents first & ya should have beat him good .so bad he will keep his mouth shut.

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