karlam29 221 Posted July 7, 2013 Hello losers! hope everyone is doing great! I just wanted to share something that happened to me at a retail store (kmart) i was going through the clothes section cause they had a summer clearance sale and i was browsing for bathing auit and summer dresses but i wasnt looking for anything in particular when this male employee touches my arm and says! Uhn.!! Excuse me ma'am uhh.. The clothes in your size are not here there are over there and points out at the plus sizes!! Agghh! I was so caught off guard i did t said anything back i just went away and left the store i was so embarrased and coming from a man it was just so ahh... Have no words people have no clue how they are hurting somebody! Just saying!.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sparklette 381 Posted July 7, 2013 I would have had some words for that employee and the manager. That s rude. What if you were jist shopoing for someone else. It really isnt that idiots business. I would have words and then leave an never go back to that store. 3 irishkat, Sheri h and karlam29 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
karlam29 221 Posted July 7, 2013 I would have had some words for that employee and the manager. That s rude. What if you were jist shopoing for someone else. It really isnt that idiots business. I would have words and then leave an never go back to that store. I know thats right! Thats what i tought what about if i was buying for somebody else he didnt know that! and trust me on that i would have said something but it was so unexpected i just shut down! Ass!! Im not going back anymore! It even looked to me like discrimination too.thanks! Hope youre doing great sparklette !! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ElleG 394 Posted July 7, 2013 Wow! That was really rude, the most he should have said was can I help you find anything. I'm sorry that happened to you 1 karlam29 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lirri 40 Posted July 7, 2013 What a horrible thing to do to someone! I was just out shopping two weeks ago for my daughter before she left for her dad's for the summer. I felt the same way since I was looking at size 9/10 and large shirts. I can't stand it when people are so insensitive. 2 karlam29 and Sheri h reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Anniesmom12 181 Posted July 7, 2013 so sorry that happened. But I would have done the same thing....right out of the store! It doesnt matter who you were shopping for... he should have left you alone! I am sure he's not on commission at Kmart...what's it to him. Hang in there .... you'll show him! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
terry1118 1,274 Posted July 7, 2013 Definitely an issue to bring up with the manager. If it's a chain store I'd bring it to the corporate office, too. With today's economy no business can afford to lose customers and they would have lost me for sure, along with my friends and family. And I'd definitely perdue the discrimination issue - no business wants to deal with a mess like that. You'd be helping to prevent anyone else to be embarrassed in that way in the future. At the very least that guy needs some retraining and sensitivity training. 1 karlam29 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oldoneyoungagain 200 Posted July 7, 2013 K-mart is owned by Sears and they definitely cannot afford crap like that. They have been so close to bankruptcy over the years that they have had to close several stores including K-mart stores. I would write a letter of complaint to Sear's Corporate office, talk with the manager of the store or cc a copy to him. 1 Cherry reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
karlam29 221 Posted July 7, 2013 K-mart is owned by Sears and they definitely cannot afford crap like that. They have been so close to bankruptcy over the years that they have had to close several stores including K-mart stores. I would write a letter of complaint to Sear's Corporate office' date=' talk with the manager of the store or cc a copy to him.[/quote'] I think that i will be writing a complaint i just dont want people to go through something like that! More than being embarrased i was so insensitive and disrespectful i work as pharmacy technician in a retail chain and i would never ever!would label somebody! Thanks for the advice! I appreciate it! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
karlam29 221 Posted July 7, 2013 Thanks everybody soo much!! For the support thats why i decided to share this with you guys all my life i have gone through so much this is nothing i just dont have tolerance for mean disrespectful bullies zero tolerance for ignorant stupid people!! Love and my best wishes for everybody Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
deaddemmama 474 Posted July 7, 2013 Thanks everybody soo much!! For the support thats why i decided to share this with you guys all my life i have gone through so much this is nothing i just dont have tolerance for mean disrespectful bullies zero tolerance for ignorant stupid people!! Love and my best wishes for everybody It's amazing...fat discrimination is still so accepted. Insensitivity abounds and it's really hurtful. I would definitely make management aware. 1 karlam29 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted July 7, 2013 Omg! Knowing my self my ass would had been like where is the manager. Have him a piece of my mind. I'm very sorry this happen to you. Keep your head up size is only 1 issue that guy must be gay or don't know what a real woman is. Being a stick is not a style lmbo look at my skinny ass. Donate that ass over here I need some padding. Your beautiful inside & out & no matter our size we are strong woman & deserve to be love & treated with respect. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
karlam29 221 Posted July 7, 2013 Omg! Knowing my self my ass would had been like where is the manager. Have him a piece of my mind. I'm very sorry this happen to you. Keep your head up size is only 1 issue that guy must be gay or don't know what a real woman is. Being a stick is not a style lmbo look at my skinny ass. Donate that ass over here I need some padding. Your beautiful inside & out & no matter our size we are strong woman & deserve to be love & treated with respect. Lol! Thanks mami for your nice words! You always have some nice words of support and yes! i can donate a lil bit of my bootyliciusness and send it to you!! Being latina i have some to give away!!! And the guy at kmart can kiss my plus size ass!!! Lol! I guess being fat you can change being ugly you cant! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cristiblu 5 Posted July 7, 2013 What an effin douche!!! You should have asked for the manager. Very out of line.. 1 karlam29 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted July 8, 2013 Lol! Thanks mami for your nice words! You always have some nice words of support and yes! i can donate a lil bit of my bootyliciusness and send it to you!! Being latina i have some to give away!!! And the guy at kmart can kiss my plus size ass!!! Lol! I guess being fat you can change being ugly you cant! That's right! His ugly ass is permanent. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites