Any September surgeries out there

[Chellep 17]

Good luck giggles and congrats on beginning your journey!

[giggles24 4]

Good luck giggles and congrats on beginning your journey!

Thank you

[Amanda R 56]

just an fyi, if you are on a clear liquid diet, welches light white grape juice is so good!!

[stitchergirl88 24]

Mmm that sounds good but the sugar content doesn't make you dump.

[Amanda R 56]

it's a diet juice so there is barely any sugar

[Amanda R 56]

just double checked, there is 11 grams of sugar in 8 ozs

[stitchergirl88 24]

I'll have to pick some up bc white grape juice sounds soooo good right now.

[Amanda R 56]

I know right. I have one of those sno cone makers. I poured some over that and it was delicious

[Amanda R 56]

I'm trying not to freak out right now. My boyfriend works midnights and is asleep. My mom was suppose to be here 2 hours ago to pick my son and I up. He's awake now and in a crib. I can't even get him out or change him. My boyfriend is already pissed at me because he quote "has to do everything", so I don't want to wake him up. I texted her and she never got back to me.

[ShineBright724 70]

Giggles good luck!!!

Amanda just blow her phone up And see if she answers. Or is there anyone else you can call. Boyfriend needs to be prescribed a chill pill. You're recovering. It's going to be a tough few weeks. He should be on board.

[sageandcoyesmommy 28]

I'm trying not to freak out right now. My boyfriend works midnights and is asleep. My mom was suppose to be here 2 hours ago to pick my son and I up. He's awake now and in a crib. I can't even get him out or change him. My boyfriend is already pissed at me because he quote "has to do everything"' date=' so I don't want to wake him up. I texted her and she never got back to me.[/quote']

How much does your son weigh? I've been picking my kids up(only when necessary) since a few days out from surgery. They're only 24 & 28 lbs though. I'm 9 days out now and am back to taking care of both kids completely....but if I had a boyfriend, I would be expecting him to do it all for at least the first week and then continue to do the lifting for the next week. Us moms 'do it all' most/all of the time anyways!

HW(9/3/13)- 284, DOS(9/11/13)-270, CW-263(9/18/13), GW-155(by 9/21/14...my 26th birthday!)

[Amanda R 56]

He's about 25 pounds. I don't think I could pick him up without hurting myself because he is very squirmy. I do all that I can as it is. I still do the dishes sweep cook for the both of them feed our child..pick up toys etc. Id do the laundry if it wasn't in the basement. I can't believe she would flake like that.

[sageandcoyesmommy 28]

He's about 25 pounds. I don't think I could pick him up without hurting myself because he is very squirmy. I do all that I can as it is. I still do the dishes sweep cook for the both of them feed our child..pick up toys etc. Id do the laundry if it wasn't in the basement. I can't believe she would flake like that.

Maybe something came up? That's awful that she didn't at least call

HW(9/3/13)- 284, DOS(9/11/13)-270, CW-259(9/20/13), GW-155(by 9/21/14...my 26th birthday!)

[Amanda R 56]

I finally got a hold of her..she said she lost track of time. But my bf already got up because the baby was screaming to get out and said forget it

[stitchergirl88 24]

Amanda, you might need to tell your boyfriend to go f himself. Im sorry but that makes me so mad. If my guy or anyone told me that right now, after what we have been through, I would just go off. Amanda I struggle with pain all day and I can't even bend over or take a big drink in one gulp without causing more. I know you are in the same boat and you deserve more! That man should be giving you foot massages and making you tasty shakes. Boohoo he has to work, men think that that alone excludes them from participating in the rest of their life. If he wants to be around for the future sexier you, then he needs to contribute. I go to school and work and when my mom broke her knee and I went to live with her to take care of her, I woke up several times a night to take her to the restroom and get her pain meds. These boys need to learn how to grow up. I am also speaking personally as my grandpa does this to my grandma and ut makes me go insane. Be strong girl and just do what feels right for you, but know that you deserve better support!