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Tomorrow I'm one month out...having one of those "I wish I didn't do this" days. Been feeling sick since last night....work, kids, school full time, husband getting out of army and getting ready to move all at the same time.....can't afford to be sick... :( sometimes I think feeling normal and being able to eat would be worth being my previous weight....pity party over here!!!

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I hear ya.... I actually had a day just like that. I just started Nuva ring on Sunday and all I want to do is eat. I just wish I could be normal for a while... I know this feeling will pass as the hormones balance, but wow does it suck right now.

Side note: thank you very much to your husband for serving and you for sticking by his side while he kept all of us safe. <3 our service men and women!

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Tomorrow I'm one month out...having one of those "I wish I didn't do this" days. Been feeling sick since last night....work' date=' kids, school full time, husband getting out of army and getting ready to move all at the same time.....can't afford to be sick... <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/sad.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':(' /> sometimes I think feeling normal and being able to eat would be worth being my previous weight....pity party over here!!![/quote']

I can totally relate. Although I am only 2 weeks post op, I have been having some of the same feelings. Thinking, omg what did I do, maybe this wasn't the right decision. Over the last few days I have been feeling so nauseous. I just started the purée stage, so I am not sure if its just my body reacting to solid food, or what but its such a horrible feeling! I just keep thinking it has to get better, so lets just hang in there :-)! Not much else we can do, lol! Just wanted you to know your not alone!

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Tomorrow I'm one month out...having one of those "I wish I didn't do this" days. Been feeling sick since last night....work' date=' kids, school full time, husband getting out of army and getting ready to move all at the same time.....can't afford to be sick... :( sometimes I think feeling normal and being able to eat would be worth being my previous weight....pity party over here!!![/quote']

Me too!! I agree 100% with you! I'm 5 weeks out and today nothing is sitting well. I've thrown up everything each time I eat. I keep thinking why did I do this?! Just having a crappy day all around so I understand. It has to get better right?!

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It will pass & once your ass is slim in a single size you will be shaking what's left of your ass lmbo

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It will pass & once your ass is slim in a single size you will be shaking what's left of your ass lmbo

Lol ... You crack me up!! Whenever I am having a bad day, I read something you write and I just start cracking up and it brings a smile to my face, THANK YOU!! Your the best!!

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I hear ya.... I actually had a day just like that. I just started Nuva ring on Sunday and all I want to do is eat. I just wish I could be normal for a while... I know this feeling will pass as the hormones balance' date=' but wow does it suck right now.

Side note: thank you very much to your husband for serving and you for sticking by his side while he kept all of us safe. <3 our service men and women![/quote']

You aRe more than welcome!!

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So today is a new day but I still woke up feeling very sad and anxious. So much to do today, Idk how I'm gonna do it. 4 weeks today. Everyone tells me it gets better but I can't help but be scared it won't.

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Did some research and spoke with my doctor, discovered I may be having some withdrawal symptoms since I cold-turkeyed my Lortab a few days ago.....great....

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Did some research and spoke with my doctor' date=' discovered I may be having some withdrawal symptoms since I cold-turkeyed my Lortab a few days ago.....great....[/quote']

I thinking stopping any med is horrible. I hope and know things will look up for you:)

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hope things get better for you soon! Wishing you well!

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Tomorrow I'm one month out...having one of those "I wish I didn't do this" days. Been feeling sick since last night....work' date=' kids, school full time, husband getting out of army and getting ready to move all at the same time.....can't afford to be sick... :( sometimes I think feeling normal and being able to eat would be worth being my previous weight....pity party over here!!![/quote']

I still occasionally have those days. It's more hormonal now for me tho like days I'm getting ready to start my period. Also at 1 month out..there's something someone on here told me about and I googled it...hibernation syndrome that happens after gastric bypass. I became so emotional at times, depressed at times, tired and totally thought it would forever be that way and had some major melt downs over loss of my old foods and old eating habits. It does get better. Hang in there. Everybody needs a tiny pity party once in awhile! Remember..this too shall pass

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I still occasionally have those days. It's more hormonal now for me tho like days I'm getting ready to start my period. Also at 1 month out..there's something someone on here told me about and I googled it...hibernation syndrome that happens after gastric bypass. I became so emotional at times' date=' depressed at times, tired and totally thought it would forever be that way and had some major melt downs over loss of my old foods and old eating habits. It does get better. Hang in there. Everybody needs a tiny pity party once in awhile! Remember..this too shall pass[/quote']

Omg! This is so me today! Pity party and just feel like hibernating the day away! Thank you for sharing this. It makes me feel better that things will get better!

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Did some research and spoke with my doctor' date=' discovered I may be having some withdrawal symptoms since I cold-turkeyed my Lortab a few days ago.....great....[/quote']

Things will get better! Do you need to go back on the meds?

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