Kblakely123 4 Posted June 7, 2013 I'm having a hard time with my family and especially my husband not supporting me before surgery I'm still in the pre op stage and it is bringing me down so bad Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kristy3k 1,133 Posted June 7, 2013 If you havent taken them to a doctors appointment with you I would encourage you to do so. Even if you have already been to a seminar, have them go to one with you. It seems people are so uneducated about the procedure and its life long benefits that they are automatically negative. Education is key and the more people you have behind you the better. Consider it your mission to rally the troops.. you can do it. 1 BBdoodle reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
arobb 13 Posted June 7, 2013 I would def have some of them go with you to support groups. Others that had the surgery tell u how it has changed their lives. I'm going for an October surgery and my boyfriend goes with me and he realizes I'm not only doing this for myself to be healthier and live longer but also I want children and I have already miscarried. He supports my decision to be healthier now so we can have children Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ElleG 394 Posted June 7, 2013 Remember we r all here for u so when u need that extra support come to us, we truly understand what u r going thru! (HUGS) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted June 8, 2013 We are here fir you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Anniesmom12 181 Posted June 8, 2013 hang in there.... press on. This tool will change your life in such a positive way they will be sorry they havent supported you...but YOU need to do it for YOU and your health! We're here to support you! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites