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Since I'm now officially slim/tiny woman. I want to reach out to those that are struggling with thinking about having WLS,and if you don't want to have WLS I'm still here for you. It's very easy to judge a book by it's cover with out knowing or walking in the other person's shoes. WLS isn't for everyone,and let's face it we are human. If we are here it's cause we have a weight issue/problem,and we want to live a long healthy life for our self spouse family,and of course kids,and who know our pets need some love from us.

There was one point in my life I was doing so great I got selfish,and neglected the group,but it wasn't with the wrong intentions I felt I didn't fit in anymore,but guess what? I fit in why? I'm here to inspire you,and make you believe,and know I'm a real person not a computer. I'm human. I have emotions. I have a family. I have goals. I have a life. I have kids. I'm your friend. I'm your support system. I'm here for you in good times,and bad times.

I send out a bunch of messages this morning for members I haven't seen post in over a year. Did they reach goal? Did they regain? Did they move? Who knows,but we are here if you want to become an active member again. This is not a site to bash,and judge one another. We are a group of people from all over the place here to support,and give support.

We are here to help you out. This isn't only about weight lost. We can talk about our kids,pets,spouse,future plastic surgeries. How you feel. If you have emotional issues. What ever is on your mind.

I'M YOUR FRIEND. I'M HERE TO HELP & INSPIRE YOU. Message me ask me questions post it here anywhere. As long as I'm living,and have my hands :) I will message you back. Any time any day.. I will get back to everyone as soon as possible. It's summer time in NYC so I do spend a lot of time with my kids,but be sure that I will check on the group.

have a wonderful day... A reminder I started at 211 pounds I'm now 109 pounds from size 18 to size 1... You can make this tool work for you & or have a NUT or doctor help you out. That's what insurance are for,and dietician if you want to do it the old fashion way. I don't blame you. Surgery is serious...

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We appreciate YOU!!!!! :D

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Thanks Mamie!

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"Mami" damn autocorrect

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Wow Mami - you da' bomb !!!!!

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Wow Mami - you da' bomb !!!!!

Thanks suddenly I became like so knowledgable. I help everyone. I feel like so special. I even took the guy from Starbuck to the girlfriend job the other Starbuck. He said he didn't feel feel. I offer him a ride. That was today :) I'm gonna do the autism walk for my son. I have a gift that's a gift so I'm sharing. I been having good luck everywhere except this marriage lmbo can't have it all lmbo

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Did u exercise a lot? I'm having a hard time getting motivated. I'm still really tired. I'm down 90 lbs since 1/29/13.

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Did u exercise a lot? I'm having a hard time getting motivated. I'm still really tired. I'm down 90 lbs since 1/29/13.

I only do a lot of walking. I will start the Shaun T starting Monday. I can't over do it cuz I need to gain weight to transfer the fat to my butt. So if I exercise I won't have any fat to transfer that's why I'm only walking.

Let me explain. I burn off 90% of my fat because I did exercise like crazy & walk crunches you name it. I was determine to lose weight & when I saw my surgeon he was shock in 3 months I lost all this weight. So I cut down but did crunches my belly got flat I only have saggy skin. After seeing I'm saggy. I reach 109 pounds I saw a plastic surgeon that needs me to gain weight 15/20 to transfer all that to my butt. That's why I not exercising. I'm holding into my fat. Need it fir surgery next year.

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