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Sitting in the bathroom crying. I'm not a crying person. Emotional + caring yeah but crying me wow!!! I'm actually hurting. I didn't realized I had feelings. For the 1st time in my life I'm not getting my way. I was a teenager when I got married. I learn everything from working to cooking to cleaning. I thought I was the perfect wife.

Omg! I wasted my life. Have 3 kids. Always depended on him to take care of me. Yeah I went to school & had a great job. He promise to take care of me forever. I believe it. I was a teenager. I went into the 20's now I'm in the 30's... I could have done better with my life. The only thing I love are my kids. I have to be the world most dump stupid woman. Now I feel like a Total jerk. God must have other plans for me.

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God does everything for a reason. Everything will be okay mami! Just hold your head high and have faith. You are an strong educated woman, and you don't need a man dictating your life.

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God does everything for a reason. Everything will be okay mami! Just hold your head high and have faith. You are an strong educated woman, and you don't need a man dictating your life.

Thanks and I love your quote "it might be hard but i'm worth it" I'm going to start saying that

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It has not been a waste... You have 3 beautiful children.. Take what's left of your dignity and create a new life with happy memories for you and your children. You are still a very young woman with a lot of years left for you... Make a life that fits with the heart you have!!!!

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One day at a time. Maybe waiting to get your bills paid is an idea to change. Although our bills and credit are very important maybe your mental health and happiness is more of a priority.

We are here to support you but you should consider moving out with your children. Where there's a will there's a way! Keep your head up and have faith!

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Surgery date 7/25/12

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It has not been a waste... You have 3 beautiful children.. Take what's left of your dignity and create a new life with happy memories for you and your children. You are still a very young woman with a lot of years left for you... Make a life that fits with the heart you have!!!!

This bought tears to my eyes. I want to create happy memories for my kids especially the little ones. My teenager hates her father. Can you blame her? No one enjoys watching your mother being put down.

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One day at a time. Maybe waiting to get your bills paid is an idea to change. Although our bills and credit are very important maybe your mental health and happiness is more of a priority.

We are here to support you but you should consider moving out with your children. Where there's a will there's a way! Keep your head up and have faith!

Xx

Surgery date 7/25/12

I'm totally serious. I'm not getting any surgery done till I have a lot of money & have my bills paid off. Paid off and only once one a year to keep it active. Gonna need them for when I need to buy stuff.

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mamiof3kids.....life in itself is hard....and believe me being married is hard as well. Just trust in God...and remember that nothing is too hard for Him. Financial isses come and they go and some linger quite a bit but your job is to ensure that despite the odds you are still smiling. At the end of the day....you are still here. You are still breathing, I can tell that you are strong....just keep in mind that you can only change you. If you be the woman that God will have you to be....everything else will follow suit. Any anger he may have is his own. Just pray for him.

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mamiof3kids.....life in itself is hard....and believe me being married is hard as well. Just trust in God...and remember that nothing is too hard for Him. Financial isses come and they go and some linger quite a bit but your job is to ensure that despite the odds you are still smiling. At the end of the day....you are still here. You are still breathing' date=' I can tell that you are strong....just keep in mind that you can only change you. If you be the woman that God will have you to be....everything else will follow suit. Any anger he may have is his own. Just pray for him.[/quote']

I started holding my head high. I'm not getting old and wrinkle over any man.

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I started holding my head high. I'm not getting old and wrinkle over any man.

LET NO MAN TAKE YOU DOWN, GO PURCHASE A NEW BOYFRIEND NAMED B.O.B (battery operated boyfriend) .

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LET NO MAN TAKE YOU DOWN' date=' GO PURCHASE A NEW BOYFRIEND NAMED B.O.B (battery operated boyfriend) .[/quote']

Lmbo I have one

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Lmbo I have one

At least you can turn that one off &it won't talk back..hehe!

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Or whine...or ask for dinner, or empty your checking account....thank a god for BOB!!!

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Or whine...or ask for dinner' date=' or empty your checking account....thank a god for BOB!!![/quote']

Idk, some of them can empty your checking account. They can get mighty expensive. And some are pretty loud, so it's kinda like whining LOL

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My B.O.B. wasn't expensive,and I don't go threw tons of batteries. I had it about 3 years now. :)

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