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[khalilmom90 12]

I need advice ladies I hope you all can help I'm 22 my fiancée 41 and my problem is I've never had an orgasm. He is very experienced and loves to try new things YES sex is amazing but I just can't cum at all now he can but not me I don't want him to think he not pleasing me because not only am i not having an orgams but my sex drive is decreasing so i know he is think I'm messing with someone else or he can't satisfy me but both are wrong I've read try to please myself first but idk

[dottednails 122]

Deffently take some time to figure out how you work please your self first you will be so glad you did. And you will be able to help him make it happen for you once you learn what feels best. Good luck !

[TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280]

If you never had an orgasm have you try oral sex not you to him but him to you? Have you ever had or try a vibrator?

[khalilmom90 12]

If you never had an orgasm have you try oral sex not you to him but him to you? Have you ever had or try a vibrator?

No I haven't tried vibrators and yes he doesn't but no luck

[khalilmom90 12]

Deffently take some time to figure out how you work please your self first you will be so glad you did. And you will be able to help him make it happen for you once you learn what feels best. Good luck !

Thanks

[shershrinking 53]

I didnt have a real orgasm until i was in my 30's! Too nervous? I dont know why.

[Jeepchick42 193]

No I haven't tried vibrators and yes he doesn't but no luck

They're a girls best friend! Lol. I've only had a hand full with a guy at 31 but I always do with a vibrator. Try making it part of your time together. Alot of men become defensive at the thought of them but ask him if he'd be open to try it. Worth a shot.

[SoccerMomma73 1,867]

They're a girls best friend! Lol. I've only had a hand full with a guy at 31 but I always do with a vibrator. Try making it part of your time together. Alot of men become defensive at the thought of them but ask him if he'd be open to try it. Worth a shot.

Once he sees how you respond to it he will likely be all for it! At least that's been my experience . Good luck!!!!!

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