khalilmom90 12 Posted May 1, 2013 I see everyone posting about their sex life lol so ill post about my problem....... Before surgery i use to wanna do it 3 times a day literally before work on lunch break and after dinner for the last three years now its different after surgery it has changed to like once a week three at the most I'm 22 my man is 41 so idk what's going on with me I haven't gave him oral sex in for ever now he thinking I don't want him anymore but its not true its just my interest in it is slowly going away we have a 2 year old even after having our child it was still the same but not now so can someone give me ideas on what can possibly help me Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crazedteacher 38 Posted May 1, 2013 I am 5 weeks out and was just researching this today. My sex drive has gone way down since I had surgery. It has nothing to do with him, but I am just really tired most of the time when I get home from work. I wish I had an answer for you, as I too and in the same boat. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
khalilmom90 12 Posted May 1, 2013 I am 5 weeks out and was just researching this today. My sex drive has gone way down since I had surgery. It has nothing to do with him' date=' but I am just really tired most of the time when I get home from work. I wish I had an answer for you, as I too and in the same boat.[/quote'] Lol its kinda weird Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
berniec 166 Posted May 1, 2013 It's your hormones. After my surgery my hormones were so out of whack. I didn't lose my sex drive but I was so mean and moody. It was so bad I didn't like myself. They will get back to normal. Some people take longer than others. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
khalilmom90 12 Posted May 1, 2013 It's your hormones. After my surgery my hormones were so out of whack. I didn't lose my sex drive but I was so mean and moody. It was so bad I didn't like myself. They will get back to normal. Some people take longer than others. Yeah I thought about that you probably right Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
berniec 166 Posted May 1, 2013 Yeah I thought about that you probably right There's another thread on this subject and this is very common. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted May 1, 2013 Sorry ladies the sex went down hill. I'm hubby is also older. It's the changes we are going threw that's making us nuts. 1 berniec reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slowtogo 301 Posted May 2, 2013 Sorry ladies the sex went down hill. I'm hubby is also older. It's the changes we are going threw that's making us nuts. I thought it was going well for you, Mami- Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted May 2, 2013 It's going well but I was saying that I understand how you feel cuz I felt like that in the beginning. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
khalilmom90 12 Posted May 2, 2013 It's going well but I was saying that I understand how you feel cuz I felt like that in the beginning. Mami you should post before and after pictures I noticed yu said you was 115 I would love to get down that far Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted May 2, 2013 Mami you should post before and after pictures I noticed yu said you was 115 I would love to get down that far Now Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blueyz80 29 Posted May 4, 2013 Now You look amazing! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
karlam29 221 Posted May 7, 2013 Mami you look great! Then and now! Wish il get there one day inspiring! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites