female only You look like you've gained weight

[shyanne 198]

I'm venting here :-D this is what a co worker told me the other day... Now my scale has been broken but I was just at my moms and after a long stall I had dropped 5lbs in a week. And I know it's correct cus I would weight myself home and her house and the doc and its always been the same. Now this is the only person that ever said a negative thing about me having RNY and since I have her weight has ballooned big time.... But this statement has just stuck with me :-/ I finally ended up asking a friend yesterday... Who I trust would tell me the truth... If I looked like I've gotten bigger. She looked at me like I was crazy :-) I just don't understand people. I've been open and honest about my journey and my struggles with food... Emotional eating and changing years of bad habits. And I've been open about how my second biggest struggle is seeing who I am now. Some times I look in the mirror and see zero weight loss. I've talked about this with her and fears I'd gain it all back.... Ugh! Well thanks for listening :-) reading:-) hope everyone has a great Monday :-D

By the way... Down 140lbs :-D

[slowtogo 301]

Ya look great! ! Don't Let others get you down.

[TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280]

Ya look great! ! Don't Let others get you down.

Agree you look great

[BBdoodle 483]

You look fantastic and keep up the great work. Stick to your eating plan, exercise and you will do fine. I have at time gained a few lbs but then took them off immediately. I also have had stalls...but I always stuck with the plan !!!

[Nel 189]

pfft, sounds like your coworker was being a bi%%h. She knows the trials you've gone through and needed to feel better by making you feel bad. It happens. Next time just be like, OMG. I was JUST thinking the same about you! Or ignore it. You know you haven't gained and you said she HAS. Jealousy.

[Solveig Larsen 14]

You look amazing!

Big hug !

[LeticiaHuggins 177]

Damn girl... Your looking hot.

~Leticia **HW: 259**PreOp: 216**SURG: 3/21/13 **Discharged @: 221**24 days post op. CW: 200.2 lbs<br />---THE WORSE PLATEAU EVER ---

[shyanne 198]

Thank y'all soooo much :-D I know in my right mind to ignore it... But it still just bugged me :-/ blah!

[hockeymumzie 181]

Your co worker needs to shut her pie hole. She is just jealous, i would not share a dang thing with her anymore.

Joined the losers side 4/11/2013

[CA712 111]

I have to agree with the others, your co worker is very jealous of you. Don't let her get to you. I am 5 weeks post op and I have a friend who has been very supportive of me since the beginning but now she can see some changes in me and once in awhile she makes remarks. If it gets any worse I am going to look for a new friend. Changes are hard on people!!!! Keep the faith.

[skylily 7]

You've done a fantastic job and you look fabulous.

It seems her negative comment probably stems from jealousy. Besides some people only see what they want to see.

[sunshine413 343]

First of all, you look AMAZING!! I am so sorry someone who is clearly struggling and is unhappy has managed to make you second guess your huge accomplishment!! Chin up, gorgeous!! You look great!!

[cookier224 238]

Girl.....you look good! Maybe your friend needs an eye exam.