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Me and my boyfriend go on dates quite often and almost always they involved going out for food or drinks then a movie or some "sexy time". Now we can't do food or sex (I'm only a few days post op) and we've already watched every movie in the theater and every show on tv! I need some ideas on non food dates that don't involve the outdoors cause it's freezing cold here or a lot of walking since my energy is in the dumps!

Thanks!

HW 283. SW265. SD 3/22/13! CW 256

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Cards are an option, if you are computer savvy try a computer game together. Take up an indoor hobby, wait, nm you said sex was out. . . . Jk!! We got the uncharted series for the play station and played that. Also u could always do relaxation stuff together. Put on some soft music, I live enya, and light some candles. Tell each other stories of what u imagine life being like ad you grow old. I know it sounds cheesy but start out like this: so we are in a house, it's a single story ranch with big bay windows, your driving that truck u want and I am playing in the yard with the kids. U come home with steaks from the store and Water balloons even though u know I hate balloon fights. Just a way to get closer without having to have sex. I know it's probably stupid, just something that would seem nice to me.

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Board games are always fun for me! Shopping or just walking around the mall or people watching. Take up the ukulele -- you can practice together and sing.

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