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Im 5 days post op and I've been close to crying over nothing, even when i get congratulated on my surgery.

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Your hormones are in an uproar. You'll be like that for 4 weeks. Or at least I was. Sorry! you can do it!

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Your hormones are in an uproar. You'll be like that for 4 weeks. Or at least I was. Sorry! you can do it!

Wow.. Well thank you, and hopefully this goes away soon.

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I'm still hormonal and I am 7 weeks out today. Right now I am crying over birthday cake I cannot have. I think a lot of this is realization I REALLY can't have these things anymore without getting sick. And I am finally making good decisions for my health.

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I'm still hormonal and I am 7 weeks out today. Right now I am crying over birthday cake I cannot have. I think a lot of this is realization I REALLY can't have these things anymore without getting sick. And I am finally making good decisions for my health.

That sounds terrible but good at the same time. Im sorry about the cake thing. This slowly crept up on me. The day after surgery i was crying in the hospital for nothing and also when i got home. Yesterday my mother made me awesome cuban food and i couldnt even have one bite... Im not a sweets fan so i should be good on that side. Hope you get better soon.

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I'm 5 weeks today and very off kilter emotionally...I cry at the drop of a hate...I'm obsessing about things I have no control over.....so not myself yet! But I'll get there :) someday!

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I'm 5 weeks today and very off kilter emotionally...I cry at the drop of a hate...I'm obsessing about things I have no control over.....so not myself yet! But I'll get there :) someday!

Everything will get better for all of us.. The important thing is to be strong.

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I am crabby' date=' irritable and ready to run from home! Ugh.[/quote']

I felt the same way, when i came back from the hospital i felt overwhelmed. A part of me wanted to be back at the hospital.

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Hey guys. It's best to just get some of that emotion out of your system. I went though this for 2 months and it got pretty bad. It's a bad mixture of hormones, food separation, and pain. I promise it will get better, but right now you have to go thought these growing pains.

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Everything will get better for all of us.. The important thing is to be strong.

I have the added joy of a relationship ending,my perfect 8 year old son starting to get in trouble at school for the first time ever, and,most importantly, my mom is on a kidney transplant list (has been for almost 2 years), a week and a half ago she got called to the hospital for work-up, there was a donor on life-support and she was #1 to receive the kidney.....about 8 hours later the called and she wasn't a close enough match to the donor so she was being sent home.....this one really hit me hard :/. I know everything happens for a purpose....mom is doing great, so great that she's not on dialysis yet, the start when her levels hit 10 and she's stayed steady at 11-12 for 2 years solid....it's amazing considering how quickly she was decreasing beforehand. I think we have the kid issue worked out but that was totally draining. And the relationship is what it is, he is an amazing man and I'm blessed to have he and his son in our lives, they are great friends, I just have to one to terms with the fact that that is all we will ever be....

Add the surgery stress, fatigue, overall not feeling well, crazy hormones and what is apparently becoming a weekly crisis in my life, I am fried!!!!

And tank you, we're all pretty much rock stars when you look at how we do this and all we do!

HW 312, pre-op (lap-band) 294, pre-op (RNY) 255, surgery date 2/11/13, goal weight 154, current weight 226.6

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I have the added joy of a relationship ending' date='my perfect 8 year old son starting to get in trouble at school for the first time ever, and,most importantly, my mom is on a kidney transplant list (has been for almost 2 years), a week and a half ago she got called to the hospital for work-up, there was a donor on life-support and she was #1 to receive the kidney.....about 8 hours later the called and she wasn't a close enough match to the donor so she was being sent home.....this one really hit me hard :/. I know everything happens for a purpose....mom is doing great, so great that she's not on dialysis yet, the start when her levels hit 10 and she's stayed steady at 11-12 for 2 years solid....it's amazing considering how quickly she was decreasing beforehand. I think we have the kid issue worked out but that was totally draining. And the relationship is what it is, he is an amazing man and I'm blessed to have he and his son in our lives, they are great friends, I just have to one to terms with the fact that that is all we will ever be....

Add the surgery stress, fatigue, overall not feeling well, crazy hormones and what is apparently becoming a weekly crisis in my life, I am fried!!!!

And tank you, we're all pretty much rock stars when you look at how we do this and all we do!

HW 312, pre-op (lap-band) 294, pre-op (RNY) 255, surgery date 2/11/13, goal weight 154, current weight 226.6[/quote']

I cant imagine taking in so much.. I too am having relatiomship issues. Hope all works out for you.

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It all does get better! Just hang in there and vent to us!! :-)

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