when should i tell a date about rny?

[jenneliza 257]

With my new self and a new year I got the courage to try online dating. I am talking to two guys I really like. They both want to meet in person. Both suggested drinks or dinner. I want to be honest and not hide anything so should I just tell them that dinner probably isn't the best option (because I still can only eat like 1/3 to 1/2 cup) and drinks are basically out of the question! Is it really a big deal or am I making this a big deal? Should I just tell them before the date or not?

Thanks

[kmiller 146]

That's up to you. I would not tell them, if it were me. It's none of their business especially this early in the relationship. I eat out most every night. I order carefully and only eat about 1/2 of what I order. You can do this.

[lisalisalisa 54]

Why don't you suggest that you meet for a cup of coffee instead? A lot of online dates do that because it's an easy exit if it doesn't work out. If it does workout then you can go elsewhere from there.

[TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280]

I honestly wouldn't tell them nada. It's my business not there's & like mention above you can go out for a cup of cafe you don't have to drink or have dinner to have a good time to get to know one another.

[sterno22 0]

I told my online date on the first date and we've been living together for 1 1/2 years now but it's up to you when and if you tell them