Krystal7k 243 Posted March 22, 2013 My husband is nervous i think but he supports me doing it because he knows im not happy at my cw......i think it would be even harder if he didnt support me doing it....is there reasons why he doesnt want u to do it? He just doent want me happy I have been married 13 years have 7 kids tegether we got married young at 16 and had all 7 kids by 21 he thanks if I get skinny I will start flirting with guys are married has been rocky for awhile now Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jannyb35 15 Posted March 22, 2013 Welcome guys to the April crew!! Best of Luck!! 1 MissTiff reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vanna 85 Posted March 22, 2013 Does anyone have a spouse that is against you haveing surgery Mine isnt really aganist it he just says what ever makes me happy. My step dad was the same way as ur husband. My mom is 5 or 6 years out and she has gained it all back plus some.dont let him dicourage you u have support in here and local support groups 1 Krystal7k reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lou:) 110 Posted March 22, 2013 He just doent want me happy I have been married 13 years have 7 kids tegether we got married young at 16 and had all 7 kids by 21 he thanks if I get skinny I will start flirting with guys are married has been rocky for awhile now Well that is just silly. I think my husband is nervous and may not like the idea. I got the lap band without telling him till right before the surgery date because he was in another state in the army. He knows about my revision now because we live together. I think he just knows I will do it anyways so he might as well keep his mouth shut and avoid a fight. Lol. We just want each other to be happy and don't want to hold each other back. 1 Krystal7k reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Krystal7k 243 Posted March 23, 2013 Good Morning!!Do you April 1st gals realize that it is only ELEVEN days away??? April IS really coming!! April 1st Deana Wright missmeagan April 3rd jeannette welsh April 4th Jer-Z-Girl jules 1210 April 5th Karma_Hova MissTiff April 8th wendilou SKNYMEBY47 BabyGirl127 critty702 Lou:) ialdridge aprildiva22 amcdowell779 April 9th Lauri M jenleej April 10th Vanna califmomto4 April 11th hockeymumzie April 16th erikaloftin pebulz April 17th Kystal7k April 18th Paul MacKay juliz1972 April 22nd Kat23 Dorian Ab1986 BethAnn April 23th Olivereindeer April 24th jannyb35 April 25th mavourneen April 29th nnaddour Pending dates skinnyjess2013 rongee2099 prittygirl214 terry1118 DebbieG anm1063 Almost last week of march 2 amcdowell779 and jannyb35 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wendilou 180 Posted March 23, 2013 Getting close!! 1 Krystal7k reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Krystal7k 243 Posted March 24, 2013 Are guys getting nerveous I know I am and my surgery isnt till april 17 how ling has your doctors say you have to be off work Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jules1210 33 Posted March 24, 2013 Are guys getting nerveous I know I am and my surgery isnt till april 17 how ling has your doctors say you have to be off work I am getting so nervous! I have my pre-op appointment tomorrow with the doctor and my class with the nurse and pre admissions appointment on Tuesday! They said usually 2 weeks out of work; however, I work lifting 5 gallon bucket of paint so they said 4 weeks would be better. Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk 1 Wendilou reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Krystal7k 243 Posted March 24, 2013 Im a cna I love my job I was thinking only to take off two weeks I go april 1st to meet with surgeon im thank im going to be put in a two week liquid diet and I still have a feeling this really isnt going to happen 1 Wendilou reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missmegan 37 Posted March 24, 2013 I can't believe it's only a week from tomorrow!! It still doesn't seem real. I'm a teacher, so I'll be taking two weeks off from school, followed by a week of April vacation. I have to let my class and their parents know that i'll be out tomorrow. Any advice out there?? HW 296 - SW ??? - CW 274 2 skinnyjess2013 and Wendilou reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vanna 85 Posted March 24, 2013 My pre op is tuesday. They already faxed my emplyer ky return date and ill be out a month 16 more days Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Krystal7k 243 Posted March 24, 2013 Im afraid to tell my boss the real reason why I need time off Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lou:) 110 Posted March 24, 2013 I am two weeks from tomorrow. I am super excited. I will be off for one week and will work from home the following week. I am putting in for short term disability just in case it is needed. My employer will let me work from home longer I'm sure if it is needed because they need me working. I just ordered some injury Protein and the Vitamins they sell also, because I have heard such great reviews online. Hopefully they get here soon. Next week I will start stocking my kitchen and making sure the house is spotless. I will have to sleep in our guest room for a while because we have 5 dogs... 2 skinnyjess2013 and Wendilou reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skinnyjess2013 39 Posted March 24, 2013 Im afraid to tell my boss the real reason why I need time off They don't need to know the real reason, just say it's major adomal surgery. Also if your using the insurance from your job. They should not say anything negative, since, well that company obviously supports a healthier lifestyle. No matter how it's done. He may be more supportive than you thing! Good luck I told my supervisor and he was so happy for me! He can't wait to see how I look 1 year from now. He has been mentally motivating. He's a great person. I sure will miss him. This is his last week. He got a better job offer with another company(he didn't even apply for the job, they heard about him threw a employee and hired him on the spot!!!(lucky guy)) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skinnyjess2013 39 Posted March 24, 2013 I am getting so nervous! I have my pre-op appointment tomorrow with the doctor and my class with the nurse and pre admissions appointment on Tuesday! They said usually 2 weeks out of work; however' date=' I work lifting 5 gallon bucket of paint so they said 4 weeks would be better. Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk[/quote'] I lift 45lb jugs of ink resin. I hope I get 4 weeks off. I also work 12 hr shifts in a clean room. So no Water bottles at my machines.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites