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I've gotten approved for my surgery and now im so afraid I'm a single mom of 3, and i don't want to leave them behind



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I'm also a single mom. Two days pre-op I spent about 8 hours bawling while writing my 'if you're reading this then something went very wrong' letters....I have since shredded them cuz, well, drama much??? In reality the chances of me dying from complication from obesity are much higher than dying from surgery....but you couldn't tell me that on that night!!! It's scary, but chances are you'll do fine and be a healthier, happier mom for your babies :). Good luck!!!

HW 312, pre-op (lap-band) 294, pre-op (RNY) 255, surgery date 2/11/13, goal weight 154, current weight 238

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Well through prayer and this support group' date='i know i can do it![/quote']

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HW 245; CW pre-op: 229; Surg Date: 2/26/13

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I'm also a single mom. Two days pre-op I spent about 8 hours bawling while writing my 'if you're reading this then something went very wrong' letters....I have since shredded them cuz' date=' well, drama much??? In reality the chances of me dying from complication from obesity are much higher than dying from surgery....but you couldn't tell me that on that night!!! It's scary, but chances are you'll do fine and be a healthier, happier mom for your babies :). Good luck!!!

HW 312, pre-op (lap-band) 294, pre-op (RNY) 255, surgery date 2/11/13, goal weight 154, current weight 238[/quote']

I am scared. I don't have a good track rec under the knife or anesthesia. Seems like something always happens. I am a worrier and though I know statistics, they haven't been on my side before. I can only beg God to bring me through Surg and have no post-Surg life endangering complications..... And I can ask for prayers from all of u, real quick. I know u all are very busy, but I hope u can. :-) God Bless.

HW 245; CW pre-op: 229; Surg Date: 2/26/13

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Praying for you.

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You are in my prayers,lord I pray and ask you to cover us all with the blood of Jesus anoint us from the top of our head to the bottom of our feet.i pray lord that you walk not behind nor in front but walk beside us all,guide every surgeon,nurse,Technician,hospit that you place us in,I beg of you to hold all our children family members and friends as we all attempt to make a change for the better.in Jesus name the holy ghost and the spirit i pray. Amen

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You are in my prayers' date='lord I pray and ask you to cover us all with the blood of Jesus anoint us from the top of our head to the bottom of our feet.i pray lord that you walk not behind nor in front but walk beside us all,guide every surgeon,nurse,Technician,hospit that you place us in,I beg of you to hold all our children family members and friends as we all attempt to make a change for the better.in Jesus name the holy ghost and the spirit i pray. Amen[/quote']

Amen!

HW 245; CW pre-op: 229; Surg Date: 2/26/13

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