btb2013 84 Posted February 2, 2013 Having a lot of an anxiety (my Surg is suppose to be on the 26th at GWU in D.C.---- it was suppose to be on the 5th, but the doc didnt feel i lost enough weight on my liquid diet so far). But given complications I had during my last childbirth 3 years ago and the entirety from that experience,I don't think even Xanax is helping.... I constantly worry about successful Surg,worry about recovery and messing something up and getting the "so and so may occur including death"--- portion of the warnings given... Worry about sagging skin or even more Heath issues,even when I am trying to beat a neuro condition by having this Surg. My hubby doesn't understand my level of anxiety and had to be brought on-board (a recent hospitalization and health issue managed to sway him). I am 234 pds and goal is to lose 94 pds....... My head is just not re-focusing..... Help!!!! Pls.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jessica9190 127 Posted February 2, 2013 I don't know how to help but I will pray for you. I deal with anxiety and know how hard it makes things. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
btb2013 84 Posted February 2, 2013 I don't know how to help but I will pray for you. I deal with anxiety and know how hard it makes things. Thanks! I will try to modify my thinking.... Pop a Xanax..... Something......... My mother always said if I could get paid for worrying I would be a multi-millionaire...... :-/ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jessica9190 127 Posted February 3, 2013 I'm a worry wort myself. About EVERYTHING!!! I read one time worry is like a rocking chair: it will give you something to do but get you nowhere. I try to remember that worrying about it won't change anything but it's hard for me. My husband says I spend too much of my life worry about things that never even come to pass. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
btb2013 84 Posted February 3, 2013 Mine says the same thing sometimes... :-/ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites