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I thought we need a support group for all of us that ate single. We don't have partners' date=' possibly lonely, etc. all is fair on this board. Lets have fun and be happy :-)

Gen :-) 12/15/12[/quote']

Count me in!! I have a 'friend' who entertains me a few times a month but that's all it is and he's not looking for more so SINGLE!!!!

HW 312, pre-op (lap-band) 294, pre-op (RNY) 251, surgery date 2/11/13, goal weight 154, current weight 251

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Count me in!! I have a 'friend' who entertains me a few times a month but that's all it is and he's not looking for more so SINGLE!!!!

HW 312' date=' pre-op (lap-band) 294, pre-op (RNY) 251, surgery date 2/11/13, goal weight 154, current weight 251[/quote']

I'm in too! I don't even have that, :-(

Single!

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I could have a FWB, 25 yo and father of 2, but I don't want to settle for something like that. He makes me a cougar, lol.

Gen :-) 12/15/12

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I could have a FWB' date=' 25 yo and father of 2, but I don't want to settle for something like that. He makes me a cougar, lol.

Gen :-) 12/15/12[/quote']

Lol, I could too but I think he lives a double life no need to settle!

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Lol....but he's LOTS of fun!!!! And it's kinda nice not to worry about the 'stuff' that goes on with a real relationship for a while. Right now I get to be a bit selfish and focus on my needs and getting through this surgery, I don't have to worry about him. For NOW it works...it won't work forever. But damn he looks good naked :/

HW 312, pre-op (lap-band) 294, pre-op (RNY) 251, surgery date 2/11/13, goal weight 154, current weight 251

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Lol....but he's LOTS of fun!!!! And it's kinda nice not to worry about the 'stuff' that goes on with a real relationship for a while. Right now I get to be a bit selfish and focus on my needs and getting through this surgery' date=' I don't have to worry about him. For NOW it works...it won't work forever. But damn he looks good naked :/

HW 312, pre-op (lap-band) 294, pre-op (RNY) 251, surgery date 2/11/13, goal weight 154, current weight 251[/quote']

That is true. I have to have my hysterectomy first. Focusing on that need, gosh I hate to say this, but it hurts. So hysterectomy, recovery, then maybe I'll be a "cougar" for a bit, lol. AND yes, he is lots of fun.

Gen :-) 12/15/12

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Hello ladies! I am indeed single. I can't wait to not be single anymore. I really want to get married and have kids. I'm hoping having the surgery will help with that!

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Just putting it out there I would be more then glad to offer up my hubs to anyone. Then maybe you all will reconsider wanting another husband. He has a good job, doesn't cheat, likes to eat, plays online multiplayer games. Star wars and star trek fan, 47 yrs old, doesn't like outside stuff, loves to watch football on tv. Hmmm well if curious let me know

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I could have a FWB' date=' 25 yo and father of 2, but I don't want to settle for something like that. He makes me a cougar, lol.

Gen :-) 12/15/12[/quote']

FWb?

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Hello ladies' date=' mind if I join the room?[/quote']

Welcome onetop! I too am single/last stages of divorce. How old are you?

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FWb?

Friend with benefits (just sex)

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Hello ladies! I am indeed single. I can't wait to not be single anymore. I really want to get married and have kids. I'm hoping having the surgery will help with that!

Awe Sammi that's great. Kids are awesome. So is marriage to the right partner.

Gen :-) 12/15/12

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