mia_c67 11 Posted January 18, 2013 So im 2 years post op I had my surgery when I was 20! I lost 130 pounds and love it but the real issue lies in the boy problems I cant seem to find the confidence to put myself out there!! A year after my surgery I got in 2 horrible relationships were they cheated on me and in my head it automatically went too o it must be my weight! Any tips ladies? O and how the hell do I put a profile pic on this thing haha [ATTACH]2218[/ATTACH] [ATTACH]2217[/ATTACH] Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Teka2011 73 Posted January 18, 2013 Hi Mia, I want to say for one you are gorgeous! And 2 guys are tough! Confidence helps but ultimately only you can change how you feel and you will def attract the right person. I'm sorry that happened to you. I would be the first one to think it was due to something I had done too or my weight. But if you look back on them were their warning signs you ignored? Hindsight is usually always 20/20. Just keep pushing forward, he's out there. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Teka2011 73 Posted January 18, 2013 And congrats on your loss! =] Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mia_c67 11 Posted January 18, 2013 Awww thank you warning signs one was in the navy Lol and the other one always talked about the,fact that I would leave him if I kept losing weight but he always made excuses!! Thank u for the advice! 1 Teka2011 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted January 18, 2013 Congrats on the weight lost. You will find the right guy. Your a hot woman. Men are jerks(most) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
