I have an embarrassing question

[mary2008 11]

After surgery how you feel sexually? I'm sorry but I have to ask .. because I 'm in zero ( . many people are afraid to ask.

[kristy3k 1,133]

Off the chart. Sex life is better then ever!!! I feel more confident

[mary2008 11]

Omg you so lucky, but I don't any energy imy husband make me a lot a complaint

[music1618 879]

Hubby and I are like newlyweds again. I feel sexier and in the mood all the time.

[Nurse Jen 45]

I didn't have a lot of energy at first....but sex minus weight is amazing....

[worm2872 635]

It's much better but I hope the more weight I lose it kicks up the hormones. I have no drive. Poor hubby.

[mizzlaw 130]

I had surgery 10/3/12....Although i have lost 65lbs, My sex drive has completely gone down.... Im soooo cranky all the time .... I think everyone is different....

[TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280]

I loveeeeeeeeeeee it!!! I can't get enough. I have so much energy. It's my new addiction.

[bariatric op number 4 38]

I had surgery 10/3/12....Although i have lost 65lbs' date=' My sex drive has completely gone down.... Im soooo cranky all the time .... I think everyone is different....[/quote']

I'm 100% with you there, I'm cranky, angry and sexdrive less :-( x

[simplysammi 134]

Single for life lol

[SKNYMEBY47 24]

I'm glad someone thought to ask this question, I'm also pre-op but have been thinking about that. My husband and I don't have much sex now, we have all the excuses of I'm too tired, too busy, too whatever and in the beginning I wanted it all the time but because he is 13 years older than I am I thought for him he was just loosing his drive but I later discovered we are usually on totally different schedules... he is more frisky in the morning and I'm more frisky at night.... so he is usually too tired and exhausted at night and I'm so busy trying to get up and get ready for work mornings are no good for me.... but I recently went through this whole medical issue with my periods (they were really bad, heavy and unstoppable.... I have PCOS also and it took about 20 years between being diagnosed with it and the first cysts to develop) so after several constant trips to the ER and my Doctors, my Doctor finally did an Endometrial ablation, so for several weeks after that procedure we could have sex anyway, but now I don't know if it has something to do with that procedure or something else but I too have lost my drive. I just don't care about sex the way I use to. I am hoping that will change after surgery and hoping that maybe I will gain the energy and "drive" back... but I am worried that I might have gone through the "change" and didn't even notice. Which would totally bite, cause once I loose the weight I'll probably be able to do all kinds of "things" and it would kind of bite if I had gone through the change and never cared about sex again....

[abbybeep 53]

After surgery how you feel sexually? I'm sorry but I have to ask .. because I 'm in zero ( . many people are afraid to ask.

When was your surgery? My first one was in August and up until recently I was Never in the mood. (Before surgery I was... But not after). Although I think part of it was a change in hormones, I think I was also uncomfortable with the changes going on with my body. Now that the changes have slowed and I'm spending more time dealing with these changes, the drive is slowly coming back. Personally, I was really depressed and concerned about it because everyone was posting about how good sex was and I didn't want it at all! It'll come back

[Dawn 42]

Depends...surgery was 11/26/12 and sometimes I am attacking him and others I am just tired and not in the mood. My hormones did speed up for a week or so and he was crawling away from me A positive attitude helps, when I feel upset or depressed I am not in the mood. When I am feeling optimistic and have made progress then he normally knows.

[mary2008 11]

When was your surgery? My first one was in August and up until recently I was Never in the mood. (Before surgery I was... But not after). Although I think part of it was a change in hormones' date=' I think I was also uncomfortable with the changes going on with my body. Now that the changes have slowed and I'm spending more time dealing with these changes, the drive is slowly coming back. Personally, I was really depressed and concerned about it because everyone was posting about how good sex was and I didn't want it at all! It'll come back [/quote']

Was 4/27/2012

[mary2008 11]

When was your surgery? My first one was in August and up until recently I was Never in the mood. (Before surgery I was... But not after). Although I think part of it was a change in hormones' date=' I think I was also uncomfortable with the changes going on with my body. Now that the changes have slowed and I'm spending more time dealing with these changes, the drive is slowly coming back. Personally, I was really depressed and concerned about it because everyone was posting about how good sex was and I didn't want it at all! It'll come back [/quote']

Omg you are right. I read a lot of post about the sex they are said they have great sex after th surgery.. that's not fair ;(