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Omg you are right. I read a lot of post about the sex they are said they have great sex after th surgery.. that's not fair ;(

Okay, so not to go all TMI on this but I've just got to tell you this! I went to Victoria's Secret and found some semi sexy things to wear. First time I wore them it was a big deal for me- and it really got things going! Because my fiancé was super into it, it helped me feel more comfortable/confident/sexy and it's really helped bring my desire back. Maybe something you should try!

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Depends...surgery was 11/26/12 and sometimes I am attacking him and others I am just tired and not in the mood. My hormones did speed up for a week or so and he was crawling away from me ;)

I am cracking up. One week I was on overdrive too. But then it went away. Darn it

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Reading this thread seriously worries me! I havent had my surgery yet, but I've always been obsessed with sex & love doing it! I will absolutely go crazy if i lose my sex drive ! Im currently single so im not having sex but, i want my sex drive there post-op for when im ready to go back at it!!!! Lol

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I'm pre surgery and I don't have a sex drive..so either way is fine with me lol

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Omg you so lucky' date=' but I don't any energy imy husband make me a lot a complaint :([/quote']

I am still disinterested for now, but mostly because I suffer from chronic pain

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Just curious... How long the surgeon recommend sustaining from sex after surgery???

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Just curious... How long the surgeon recommend sustaining from sex after surgery???

*pre-Surgery*

My doctor told me a couple of weeks, or basically whenever i feel up for it.

2/11/13

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Just curious... How long the surgeon recommend sustaining from sex after surgery???

I waited two weeks.....we used a position where his weight was off me cuz I was still sore. It wasn't amazing then but now....it's awesome!

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