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You guy's are scaring me ! I haven't been with a man in 4 years since my divorce !

WHAT IN THE WORLD?

Seriously the surgery make you have these sexual feelings? What am i going to do ?

God Help Me !

I'M SINGLE : (

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If that is a result of surgery my husband will be THRILLED beyond believe. I better pick up some Viagra while I'm in Mexico.

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You guy's are scaring me ! I haven't been with a man in 4 years since my divorce !

WHAT IN THE WORLD?

Seriously the surgery make you have these sexual feelings? What am i going to do ?

God Help Me !

I'M SINGLE : (

I'm single too -- I may also be in trouble! :wacko:

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So...

It's the powder Room and I'm not allowed to comment because I'm a man...

However...

I'd like to say the following...

This is now my favourite thread..

It's taken first spot from that brilliantly titled "BOOBS" thread...

Thank you for allowing me into your secret girl's business, inner sanctum type area...

Please, continue on your journeys of discovery...

That is all..

Kinda..

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Yep....my sex drive is back and I haven't felt so interested since before my daughter was born 17 years ago! I also have a very happy hubby. I am post menopausal, but that doesn't seem to be an issue one way or another. I really think it's a head thing for me. I like the new me, feel good about my efforts and successes, and have improved my looks and fitness so much at the gym that I finally have a consistent desire to be touched and loved again. At 60 I'm pretty sure it's not hormonal...lol. Maybe the younger women are experiencing something similar, not anything hormonal?

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I wish I had some of that "want".. it is the furthest thing from my mind. I never had a big drive, but its completely gone right now. :(

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My husband & I were pretty active before my sleeve. But afterwards, JESUS! Never imagine the continuous improvements. Loving it!!!!

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More sex would be awwwesome!!! Hubby is going through a change n don't want it. (He's 41)

I can't help to think its me however 20yrs n my weight has never affected him before. Smaller sex, can't wait to try new moves n just be there in the moment instead of worring about my weight

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For the ladies that are single, live it up girls. Enjoy every minute of your sexuality, and have fun exploring ; )

For the ladies that are married and their men are loving their new, wild, sex craved wives, time to explode with passion ; )

And then the ladies like me...not single, married, but my husband has zero sex drive. So bad in fact that he has told me I can see other guys(for sex) if I need to. Our sex life has been like this for about 5 years, and he gave me the go ahead years ago, but I never followed through. Until this past summer, when my urges were uncontrollably intense. I felt so guilty at first, and angry with myself and him. But I keep bringing it up, and he keeps telling me to do what I have to do. I'm totally confused about where this is going, what I want and what's going to happen with our relationship!

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It sounds like it's probably a combination of both. Now you have more energy, you're probably a little more flexable, your hormones have changed, etc. In any case, good for you! Sex gives you endorphins so I'd totally count it as exercise. ????

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Some good things is my legs go farther back .he can grab my ass .. bad part is my bones on his ouch... SD 8/4/15 HW 363 SW 340 CW 272

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For the ladies that are single, live it up girls. Enjoy every minute of your sexuality, and have fun exploring ; )

For the ladies that are married and their men are loving their new, wild, sex craved wives, time to explode with passion ; )

And then the ladies like me...not single, married, but my husband has zero sex drive. So bad in fact that he has told me I can see other guys(for sex) if I need to. Our sex life has been like this for about 5 years, and he gave me the go ahead years ago, but I never followed through. Until this past summer, when my urges were uncontrollably intense. I felt so guilty at first, and angry with myself and him. But I keep bringing it up, and he keeps telling me to do what I have to do. I'm totally confused about where this is going, what I want and what's going to happen with our relationship!

I'm sorry to read this, but know you aren't alone. Sending you a PM.

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I'm 30, a little over 2 1/2 months post and I'm on the other end. No interest at all! :(

surgery 10/17/12 pre op wt 215 surgery wt 201 current 181

I watched a lot of You Tube videos on VSGers...one woman had the same issue...a big drive before surgery, but no drive afterwards...it did come back for her a few months later, so fingers crossed for you too!

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For the ladies that are single, live it up girls. Enjoy every minute of your sexuality, and have fun exploring ; )

For the ladies that are married and their men are loving their new, wild, sex craved wives, time to explode with passion ; )

And then the ladies like me...not single, married, but my husband has zero sex drive. So bad in fact that he has told me I can see other guys(for sex) if I need to. Our sex life has been like this for about 5 years, and he gave me the go ahead years ago, but I never followed through. Until this past summer, when my urges were uncontrollably intense. I felt so guilty at first, and angry with myself and him. But I keep bringing it up, and he keeps telling me to do what I have to do. I'm totally confused about where this is going, what I want and what's going to happen with our relationship!

My friend went out of her marriage, on her wife's encouragement (somewhat different circumstances), but she wound up really connecting with the other person and now they are separated and the marriage is pretty much done. On the other hand, all that was just a catalyst, and possibly a good thing in the end. All situations are different. Have fun, but proceed with caution.

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