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I'm having surgery in 7 more weeks....an I'm scared that I won't be in the mood. How long did it take you ladies to continue or get back in the mood. I was told I would lose my drive!

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THEY LIED. LOL. You probably won't want any right after surgery, but once you start feeling like yourself....you're gonna love it.

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I waited 4wks. It would have been 3, but I wanted to get on my birth control, first.

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THEY LIED. LOL. You probably won't want any right after surgery' date=' but once you start feeling like yourself....you're gonna love it.[/quote']

Lmbo I started feeling sexy so I wanted it & it felt different belly not in the way. More energy wasn't saying hurry up & cum. Lmbo no rushing

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6 days post op, feeling myself and very horny. LOL we are just doing it safely as in no positions that will strain my abdomen. But enjoying every minute! And... bonus... I have not lost my taste for or ability to swallow. hehe

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Thank you! That was a concern of mine too! We are pretty....active....right now lol and I DEFINITELY don't want to lose that! I also don't want to have to wait too long after surgery.

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