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13 more days left to go and the 20 will be here like that. Now I'm just plain scared I do smoke and stopping but what if I don't wake up or something. In 25 and age is in my side but still scared. Help me!

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Relax, its not easy but you are young you can. Send you the best wishes.

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i haven't had my surgery yet, or even have a date, but i do know how you are feeling I have been under 4 times for other medical procedures and feel the same way. I don't know if you believe in God, but what helped me was to pray pray pray. pray for Him to calm your spirit and give you peace. And when you get in there to get knocked out, pray till you fall asleep.

God bless

Kat

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i haven't had my surgery yet' date=' or even have a date, but i do know how you are feeling I have been under 4 times for other medical procedures and feel the same way. I don't know if you believe in God, but what helped me was to pray pray pray. pray for Him to calm your spirit and give you peace. And when you get in there to get knocked out, pray till you fall asleep.

God bless

Kat[/quote']

Thank you so much I will do that.

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13 more days left to go and the 20 will be here like that. Now I'm just plain scared I do smoke and stopping but what if I don't wake up or something. In 25 and age is in my side but still scared. Help me!

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You will be fine have faith in god and surgeon . I will keep you in my prayers. Honestly I had surgery nov 6 this year and I was scared i have five kids age 33 and scared I didn't want to die. If you don't have this surgery your cutting your life short. This surgery gives you a fighting chance to correct and prevent medical issues. I have faith in you and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers . If you need to talk I'm here to support you encourage you . You deserve to be healthy and don't forget super sexy lol

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You will be fine have faith in god and surgeon . I will keep you in my prayers. Honestly I had surgery nov 6 this year and I was scared i have five kids age 33 and scared I didn't want to die. If you don't have this surgery your cutting your life short. This surgery gives you a fighting chance to correct and prevent medical issues. I have faith in you and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers . If you need to talk I'm here to support you encourage you . You deserve to be healthy and don't forget super sexy lol

Thank so much! ????

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