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I think I can handle those comments better then the one I grew up with from my grandpa who said that I would soon have to be weighed at the farmers market in a cow scale if I didn't stop gaining weight. this was when I was only 170 pounds. probably had something to do with why I kept on eating

Ouch! That hurts!

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My husband just said yesterday' date=' " well you look like your all saggy now"..... Smh how mean.....[/quote']

Seems he never learnt how to be supportive. I remember how he did before and shortly after your surgery! Ugh

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My cardiologist said when I went to get clearance for surgery, "So I hear you want to be cut open to loose weight" I wanted to kick him in the groin right there!!!

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Good for you. He's worthless

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Worthless might be putting it nicely. He's a cheater, liar, and abandoned our daughter for his Ho. It's ok he's going to the cleaners. I am cleaning him out. I just pray to god that there is a good guy left on the earth the lives in same general area as me.

Gen :-)

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That's ok Gen. There are truly nice guys left. You just have to weed your garden and get rid of the bad weeds!!! That's what I did! : )

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That's ok Gen. There are truly nice guys left. You just have to weed your garden and get rid of the bad weeds!!! That's what I did! : )

And you are going to look smoking hot when u find your new man!

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When people remark about how little I eat' date=' I tell them that after looking at their meals it's amazing to think I used to eat that much........conversation ends![/quote']

Love it!

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You go, Gen! He isn't worth wasting your life with!

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Worst two comments oh your so pretty now and now we can find you a man!! Gotta love ppl?de09

Ive got a new one. That ruffly shirt would look good on you because the ruffles will hide your rolls!

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Worst comment I heard.. "You took the easy way out..."

This is by No means the easy way out. It is a psychologically and physically tough for the bypass patient and the immediate family.

People are so inconsiderate of others feelings.

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Yesterday I got my mother-in-law's very typical "just think how pretty you'll be when all the weight is gone!" It's a classic. Her second favorite is to tell me how I won't need my meds when I'm thin, because my lifelong anxiety disorder and depression will be cured by being thin!! Lol. I just have to laugh.

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I think the worst thing I've heard, well I'm a surgical tech, this cane from a general of course skinny surgeon was all you need to do is close your mouth and exercise! WHAT, did I hear that come out of a highly educated persons mouth??? Before I see any medical person, I will ask around if anyone had heard them make any kind of comments about obese patients, I refuse to pay them one dine of my hard earned fat money! That makes me angry still.

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