lili2012 85 Posted December 23, 2012 I think I can handle those comments better then the one I grew up with from my grandpa who said that I would soon have to be weighed at the farmers market in a cow scale if I didn't stop gaining weight. this was when I was only 170 pounds. probably had something to do with why I kept on eating Ouch! That hurts! Sent from my Galaxy S III using RNYTalk Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lili2012 85 Posted December 23, 2012 My husband just said yesterday' date=' " well you look like your all saggy now"..... Smh how mean.....[/quote'] Seems he never learnt how to be supportive. I remember how he did before and shortly after your surgery! Ugh Sent from my Galaxy S III using RNYTalk Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roniwhite1 1 Posted December 24, 2012 My cardiologist said when I went to get clearance for surgery, "So I hear you want to be cut open to loose weight" I wanted to kick him in the groin right there!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
one4ozzie 434 Posted December 24, 2012 Good for you! It truly is a new beginning for you! It is. An unwanted new beginning but he has been cheating w his Ho!!! Gen :-) 1 mrsblues reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
one4ozzie 434 Posted December 24, 2012 Good for you. He's worthless Sent from my Galaxy S III using RNYTalk Worthless might be putting it nicely. He's a cheater, liar, and abandoned our daughter for his Ho. It's ok he's going to the cleaners. I am cleaning him out. I just pray to god that there is a good guy left on the earth the lives in same general area as me. Gen :-) 1 mrsblues reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dawnolson 85 Posted December 24, 2012 That's ok Gen. There are truly nice guys left. You just have to weed your garden and get rid of the bad weeds!!! That's what I did! : ) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
michelecaples 224 Posted December 24, 2012 That's ok Gen. There are truly nice guys left. You just have to weed your garden and get rid of the bad weeds!!! That's what I did! : ) And you are going to look smoking hot when u find your new man! 1 mrsblues reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
msixkiller 96 Posted December 24, 2012 When people remark about how little I eat' date=' I tell them that after looking at their meals it's amazing to think I used to eat that much........conversation ends![/quote'] Love it! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrsblues 81 Posted December 24, 2012 You go, Gen! He isn't worth wasting your life with! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
one4ozzie 434 Posted December 24, 2012 Thanks all :-) Gen :-) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lookatmenow 32 Posted December 26, 2012 Worst two comments oh your so pretty now and now we can find you a man!! Gotta love ppl???? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
michelecaples 224 Posted December 26, 2012 Worst two comments oh your so pretty now and now we can find you a man!! Gotta love ppl?de09 Ive got a new one. That ruffly shirt would look good on you because the ruffles will hide your rolls! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dar85c 0 Posted December 26, 2012 Worst comment I heard.. "You took the easy way out..." This is by No means the easy way out. It is a psychologically and physically tough for the bypass patient and the immediate family. People are so inconsiderate of others feelings. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lisa Collom 184 Posted December 26, 2012 Yesterday I got my mother-in-law's very typical "just think how pretty you'll be when all the weight is gone!" It's a classic. Her second favorite is to tell me how I won't need my meds when I'm thin, because my lifelong anxiety disorder and depression will be cured by being thin!! Lol. I just have to laugh. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fireandice36 20 Posted December 26, 2012 I think the worst thing I've heard, well I'm a surgical tech, this cane from a general of course skinny surgeon was all you need to do is close your mouth and exercise! WHAT, did I hear that come out of a highly educated persons mouth??? Before I see any medical person, I will ask around if anyone had heard them make any kind of comments about obese patients, I refuse to pay them one dine of my hard earned fat money! That makes me angry still. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites