tlynn4love 48 Posted December 4, 2012 Submitted application to insurance today. Hoping and praying for approval. I have bcbs and I've been researching, seeing a lot of people that have the same I insurance and got approved only there's another issue..... my husband does nit want me to have the surgery so besides my bestfriend who is supportive I'm kinda on my own. I don't want this to ruin my marriage though. Any advice? Thanks in advance Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mommy2boys 40 Posted December 4, 2012 Omg I'm in the same boat. I am waiting to get s call back for approval. I have bcbs my husband just told me he's against this and the only other person who knows is my best friend. I feel nervous too 1 tlynn4love reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mommy2boys 40 Posted December 4, 2012 The last thing I want is to ruin my marriage. I love him so much. I think he is scared of me being skinny again. But I was with him. I love him. I need this for health and so I can be alive for him and our kids. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
worm2872 635 Posted December 5, 2012 I suggest counseling now. I know it sounds drastic but it's worth it. Also, have you taken him with you to your appointments? Sometimes that helps lessen their fears. Good luck!! 2 kristy3k and ladyspl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tlynn4love 48 Posted December 5, 2012 Insurance approved and will cover all cost only thing I been is a 6 month medically supervised diet. Sweet but sour at the same time. I was hoping I wouldn't have a long wait but. Its worth it. I'm not good at waiting. Hopefully time flies 1 ladyspl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tlynn4love 48 Posted December 18, 2012 Talked to hubby today. After a tearful conversation. I have his support I'm do happy and relieved Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
