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I cant wait to...

Not be the fattest parent at all the school and sporting events.

Be able to buy clothes because I like them, not because they fit.

Not feel like others are staring at me yet at the same time feel invisible.

Be able to use the small blood pressure cuff.

Go running.

Go hiking.

Be a part of family photos and not be behind the camera.

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To taking a long hot bubble bath again!!

To being able to tie my shoes in the middle instead of the side!!

Run & Play with grandbabies til I wear them out!!

To not having daily pain and discomfort!!

To finally be healthy and vibrant again!!

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I want my outside and inside to match. I am an outgoing, happy go lucky person and I want my confidence back. I want my hell raiser back, I want me back. I don't know who this fat, anxiety ridden woman is but I don't like her. I want to be able to go do stuff without having to pre-plan everything and make sure its fat girl friendly.

Oh and I want to fit in a seat belt in my mother in laws car because her stupid Buick seems to think that if you're bigger than roughly a size 20, then you should stay home or take your chances being thrown around in an accident.

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I can't wait until my surgery!!!!! (February 28th)

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I can't wait until my surgery!!!!! (February 28th)

I know what you mean.... I can't wait either and mine isn't until April 8th......

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I can't wait to be able to .....

buy a bra that fits, is sexy and not gonna break the bank!!

( Larger size bras are NOT that pretty! Just watch Double Divas and you will see! LOL)

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Updated List:

Things I can't wait for and inspire/motivate me to keep going:

- Use a regular bath towel and not a beach towel because nothing else will cover my body.

- use high heels with out fear of falling over!(TIMMMMBER! LOL)

- I can take my daughter to Disneyland without fearing that I won't fit in the rides.

- Take my hubby on a date to Six Flags... he loves that place but I never want to go for the same reason as Disneyland.

- I want to run/walk a marathon!

- I can run or walk fast with out feeling like im going to die!

- Buy cute bras that wont break the bank! I used to LOVE Lane Bryant and now I HATE THEM! LOL so expensive!

- Buy clothes anywhere! not just specialty plus size stores!

- Be that girl that when I walk by people think: Wow look how great she looks!

- Be able to try different activities in the bedroom ;) and surprise my hubby!

- be so fit that working out is a hobby and not a necesity!

-look @ my feel when I look down.

- Cross my legs!

- Paint my toe nails with out being in a awkard position so I can reach my toes!

- Be able to soak in a bath! soak meaning I fit in the tub and actually have the Water cover my body!

- Go to the movies and be able to sit comfortably in the chair with out rubbing up agains the person next to me!

For the most part I want to be an example to my daughters!!! For a healthy lifestyle!

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I've read this thread a lot so here. Is my wish list:

- sit on the floor with my daughter and play instead of her saying' date=' daddy and I will play on the floor you sit on the bed mommy.

- ride on a roller coaster with my daughter. 2 amusement parks and never a ride with her.

- wear jeans (haven't worn jeans in almost 3 years)

- care about myself and how I look. I always wear sweats and slippers bc I'm so fat I just don't care.

- run a mile

- do a marathon

- teach my daughter proper eatin habits.

- shop in a normal store!!

- share clothes with someone, anyone!

Not to mention everything everyone else said too!![/quote']

Ok. Thought I would see what I have accomplished so far. I am 6.5 weeks post op. down 30lbs since surgery (more now) 67lbs total since I started process in October.

I now sit on the floor and play and lie on the floor and color. I still choose the couch or bed... Because my floor is tile. But on carpet I choose the floor because I can!!

No amusement park rides yet, but we went to the zoo and I walked! I didn't get or need a wheel chair.

I own jeans now!!!

And I share clothes with other ppl in my support group. I can share some of my husbands shirts!!!

No mile run, but I walk 3 miles and run for a minute or 2!

Marathon, I'm looking into my first 5k in a month or so.

Teaching proper eating, not yet. I seem to e feedin her more crap since I barely eat or cook. Working on it!

I can shop at Walmart and target now. Which to me is a normal store!! I also buy clothes at goodwil now which I never could before.

As for caring how I look. I am realizing its a hard process. I still choose huge baggy clothes and slippers over anything else. But I like to wear a bra now bc it doesn't hurt. And I think about what I choose to wear an I actually can wear nice clothes when I want too!

I have accomplished a lot on this list. Makes me feel awesome.

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I can't wait to be able to walk the mall without my back hurting

Cross my legs

Shop out of a regular store

Play with my 6 year old at the play ground

Wear cute lil summer dresses.

Wear high heels again

Look cute in a bathing suit

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I can't wait to wear clothes I like.

I can't wait to be back to a size 7\8 or at least a 9/10.

I can't wait to find going shopping (for clothing) enjoyable again.

I can't wait until I can look into the mirror and like the way I look again.

I can't wait to feel lighter, more flexible and have more stamina.

I can't wait to be able to travel more With my daughter.

I can't wait to be complimented on my new body.

I can't wait for long walks again and exercise!

I can't wait to feel confident in a bathing suit.

I can't wait to feel healthier.

I can't wait to not live my life worrying if I will die young as a result of obesity or being overweight.

I can't wait to teach my daughter and set the example for my new healthy lifestyle.

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