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Today I went to court to finalize my divorce, hallelujah !!!!! And I saw my ex-husband after about four months for the first time and he said. "You lost a lot of weight, are u starving yourself?" Lmao idiot.

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I guess congrats are in order I hope :unsure:

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You know maybe his comment is a sign that he wasn't the right person to be with during your new YOU. Congrats and I hope that only positive things happen from now on :)

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I guess congrats are in order I hope <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/unsure.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':unsure:' />

Congrats are definitely in order!!! I'm ecstatic! Thanks lol

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You know maybe his comment is a sign that he wasn't the right person to be with during your new YOU. Congrats and I hope that only positive things happen from now on <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' />

Yea we married too young, he's an idiot... I'm past that phase and looking forward to my NEW life.

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well i guess at least the idiot noticed, but man the things that they say sometimes, just floors you doesn't it. Advice my sister gave me years ago after my first divorce "if he was any different you would still be married to him" she was so correct, Twenty years later and I still shake my head at some of the things that comes out of his mouth.

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well i guess at least the idiot noticed' date=' but man the things that they say sometimes, just floors you doesn't it. Advice my sister gave me years ago after my first divorce "if he was any different you would still be married to him" she was so correct, Twenty years later and I still shake my head at some of the things that comes out of his mouth.[/quote']

And to think, my son is 4... So I only have to deal with him for 14 more years! Oy vey!!!! Lol I mean that is if he is MAN enough to stick around and be a father...

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Men! Why starving is the 1st thing an idiot can come up with?

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Congrats to you. I guess I'm lucky in that, I'm actually friendly with my ex. He is an even better dad to our son after our divorce. It's been a while for us actually...11 years divorced but, we get along good. Much better than we did living together. :) We were young too when we got married.....I was picker 2nd time around :)

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