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I have had a rough two days! Surgery on Tuesday they call me on Friday at 3:30 and tell me that I need to pay nearly 4000.00 before surgery. I am just devastated as I do not have that just readily available. I have to complete my scope procedure Monday but if can't get it paid why do I need to do that. So I am in a pickle do I continue with liquid diet or eat? I am going to beyond mad if I have given 11 days of my life up only not to have surgery. Need some advice fast please. Been trying to handle this but emotion is getting the best of me now.

My prayers are with you - I hope everything works out. To come this far and have such a big set back is awful! Keep thinking positive!

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My prayers are with you - I hope everything works out. To come this far and have such a big set back is awful! Keep thinking positive!

Omw..that is awful..if it were me I would continue doing what you are cause you never know what may change at the last minute..maybe doc will do payments or something..I would be really upset to..sorry your in such a mess..

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OH MY GOSH MY SURGERY IS 16 HOURS AWAY I CAN'T BELIEVE THE TIME HAS COME PLEASE HELP I AM SOOOO STRESSED I HAVE BEEN CRYING ALL DAY I HAVE SERIOUSLY BEEN THINKING ABOUT CANCELING SOMEBODY PLEASE TALK ME OUT OF CANCELING I REALLY REALLY NEED THIS :(

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OH MY GOSH MY SURGERY IS 16 HOURS AWAY I CAN'T BELIEVE THE TIME HAS COME PLEASE HELP I AM SOOOO STRESSED I HAVE BEEN CRYING ALL DAY I HAVE SERIOUSLY BEEN THINKING ABOUT CANCELING SOMEBODY PLEASE TALK ME OUT OF CANCELING I REALLY REALLY NEED THIS <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/sad.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':(' />

I think you just said it.... You really really need this. It's cold feet. Remember you want to do this for your family and your life. Don't come this far and back out now.

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December Surgeries

Clairelou lou- Dec 1st Coventry, England

jls2012- Dec 3rd Greenville, SC

lindamarie- Dec 3rd Santa Rosa, CA

NikiG- December 3rd Christiana Hospital Newark, DE

simplysouthern26- Dec 3rd, Dr. William Johnson, Johns Creek, Georgia

TeamMom- December 4th, Ohio

lisamcgowin- Dec 4th, Dallas Tx with Dr. Castro

charrison27- December 4th, Dr. Asad, Erie, PA

msixkiller- Dec 4th Bailey Medical Center, OK

mrsblues- December 4th Silver Cross Hospital (Joliet, IL)

Wannabepintsized- Dec 4th San Antonio, TX

jpr99- December 5th, Rochester General, Dr Anthony DiBenedett

Kathmandu- Dec 5th Highland Park Hospital, I'll

Eaepc1012- Dec 5th, Hershey, PA

mkruit- Dec 5th Akron, OH

shaunda- Dec 5th, at Lexington Memorial in Lexington SC

Jessica143- December 5th ..Wareham MA

Vicki Loichinger- Dec 5th St Francis Hospital Indianapolis, IN

nazack- Dec 7th @ Billings Clinic

rarah- Dec 8th Coventry uk

Charde- December 10th Portsmouth Naval in Virginia

Denyelle- Dec 10th Traverse City, MI

cogburn- Dec 10th Allentown Pennsylvania dr Leonardo Claros

hotgal77- December 10th St. Lukes Roosevelts..NYC..Dr. Ninan Koshy

beans- Dec. 10th in Wareham, Mass

cogburn- December 10th

kdl0452- Dec 10th Kissimmee, FL..brother's surgery same day

redoableme- Dec 10th!! Vista East in Waukegan, I'll

young316- Dec 10th (((HUSBANDS SURGERY DATE)))

Linda9009- December 11th

Sue22- December 11th

Jodimc- December 12th, Fayetteville AR, Dr. Roller

charlismom229- Dec 12th. Dr. Small in Hagerstown, MD

dstumpfol- December 12th Indianapolis, In

TDee- Dec 12th Edmonton, Alberta (CAN). Dr. Karmali

2bhlthy- December 12th

simplysammi- December 12th, Gainesville ,Fl Dr. Ben-David

tnnorton- December 13th, in NC

jamicrow- Dec 13th Madison, WI

thisshizzibananas- Dec 13th, Dr. Anthony Petrick, Geisinger Medical Center, Danville, PA

fireandice36- Dec 17th

Irishone127- Dec 17th Dr S. Trang. Einstein Hospital, Elkins Park, PA

jaymi - Dec17th

Mi2- December 17th

Nicole K- Dec 17th Boston, MA

Blue Chevy- Dec 18th, Toronto Ontario Canada

Joan VanDorn- Dec 18th Bailey medical center owasso Oklahoma

Khuff- December 18th Grand Junction Colorado

mommys2boys- Dec 19th

formykids- Dec. 19th, Spokane, WA

tkd259- Dec. 20th Raleigh, NC. Dr. Tyner

snow25- Dec 20th Greenville, NC

Amanda M- Dec 21st

LaShawn2m- Dec 27th

R4TNM- Dec. 28th

Old_Hippie_Gal- December 31st in Fayetteville Arkansas at Washington Hospital

EmpressLizBunny- December 31st shady grove advantist, Gaithersburg MD

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It is amazing the emotions one can go through during something like this. Thank you every for the support it is making today more bearable.

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Wishing all dec 3 people an uneventful surgery and a speedy recovery keep us posted

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Wishing all dec 3 people an uneventful surgery and a speedy recovery keep us posted

Thank you very much!!! So glad the day has finally come!

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Has anyone on the liquid diet cheated? I'm having such a hard time with this! I just ate some Soup but I didn't strain it... I ate everything in it. I'm so horrible!!

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Has anyone on the liquid diet cheated? I'm having such a hard time with this! I just ate some Soup but I didn't strain it... I ate everything in it. I'm so horrible!!

Don't feel horrible... Just get back on track. I'm on the last day of the 2 week diet. I haven't cheated, but it was definitely very hard. You can do it. What really helped my was that I weighed myself after 6 days & I lost 11 lbs. that made me feel so good & know that its all worth it! Just keep telling yourself "I can do this" and know there is a light at the end of the tunnel!

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To be honest I was on liquid for 48 hours & I didn't cheat.

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Thank you very much!!! So glad the day has finally come!

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Hey Niki are you not scared I am terrified but excited I am a nervous wreck lol my hubby said he would tie me up or drag me kicking and screaming to the hospital in the morning if he has to lol

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