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Simplysouthern26 92 Posted December 2, 2012 OH MY GOSH.... I am having a really tough time today my surgery is in 1.5 days and I swear I am loosing it I want to eat so bad from nerves.. And I had a break down on my hubby now all I want to do is sit and hold my little boys and just cry my eyes out Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jodimc 117 Posted December 2, 2012 I've had a really rough day too. When people talk about their holiday plans I become resentful that I can't make plans because of recovery time... Mad at myself for being fat and in this position. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Simplysouthern26 92 Posted December 2, 2012 I've had a really rough day too. When people talk about their holiday plans I become resentful that I can't make plans because of recovery time... Mad at myself for being fat and in this position. Oh I sooo know what you mean I feel so bad that I am putting my boys and husband through this I wish i wasnt fat Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Simplysouthern26 92 Posted December 2, 2012 Has anyone heard from Clairelou lou today??? Because today was her surgery she is the first one on our December 2012 Post Op Group losers bench way to go whoot whoot Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jodimc 117 Posted December 2, 2012 Yes, inconveniencing my family and also spending all our money. I'm paying out of pocket and we are scraping by for Christmas as a result. Oh well, I know it'll be worth it for them to have a more active, longer living mother and wife. Just wish it hadn't come to this. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NikiG 113 Posted December 2, 2012 OH MY GOSH.... I am having a really tough time today my surgery is in 1.5 days and I swear I am loosing it I want to eat so bad from nerves.. And I had a break down on my hubby now all I want to do is sit and hold my little boys and just cry my eyes out I know what u mean... I've kept myself busy since 6am today by getting my hair braided which took 6 hours. Then I got rid of all the clothes in my closet & rearranged my bedroom. I brought a few new outfits in smaller sizes! Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
msixkiller 96 Posted December 2, 2012 I have had a rough two days! Surgery on Tuesday they call me on Friday at 3:30 and tell me that I need to pay nearly $4000.00 before surgery. I am just devastated as I do not have that just readily available. I have to complete my scope procedure Monday but if can't get it paid why do I need to do that. So I am in a pickle do I continue with liquid diet or eat? I am going to beyond mad if I have given 11 days of my life up only not to have surgery. Need some advice fast please. Been trying to handle this but emotion is getting the best of me now. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted December 2, 2012 No problem it didn't take to long to fix... Sorry I didn't respond sooner I am with my 5 year old little boy at the emergency room he has bronchitis and asthma and his fever spiked to 103 Omg! I sure hope he is better now:) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Eaepc1012 1 Posted December 2, 2012 I have had a rough two days! Surgery on Tuesday they call me on Friday at 3:30 and tell me that I need to pay nearly 4000.00 before surgery. I am just devastated as I do not have that just readily available. I have to complete my scope procedure Monday but if can't get it paid why do I need to do that. So I am in a pickle do I continue with liquid diet or eat? I am going to beyond mad if I have given 11 days of my life up only not to have surgery. Need some advice fast please. Been trying to handle this but emotion is getting the best of me now. I can't even imagine how your feeling! Is it something to do with insurance or the hospital? My thoughts and prayers are with you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NikiG 113 Posted December 2, 2012 I have had a rough two days! Surgery on Tuesday they call me on Friday at 3:30 and tell me that I need to pay nearly 4000.00 before surgery. I am just devastated as I do not have that just readily available. I have to complete my scope procedure Monday but if can't get it paid why do I need to do that. So I am in a pickle do I continue with liquid diet or eat? I am going to beyond mad if I have given 11 days of my life up only not to have surgery. Need some advice fast please. Been trying to handle this but emotion is getting the best of me now. Oh my.... Sorry to hear of this.... Why would they wait so long to tell you this like everyone just has lots of money at their disposal. Do you have any access checks from a credit card you can use, or can you get a credit line increase on a credit card, apply for a loan 1st thing Monday morning. I know you're devastated. I would stay on the liquids just incase you can pull it off. Wish you much luck! Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
msixkiller 96 Posted December 2, 2012 I asked the same thing why so they did not talk to me sooner. We started this process in March. Applied for medical loan on Friday and stayed on liquid diet. We will see on Monday. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
msixkiller 96 Posted December 2, 2012 I can't even imagine how your feeling! Is it something to do with insurance or the hospital? My thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank you need them right now! Hospital thing unfortunately! We will see Monday. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrsblues 81 Posted December 2, 2012 I have had a rough two days! Surgery on Tuesday they call me on Friday at 3:30 and tell me that I need to pay nearly $4000.00 before surgery. I am just devastated as I do not have that just readily available. I have to complete my scope procedure Monday but if can't get it paid why do I need to do that. So I am in a pickle do I continue with liquid diet or eat? I am going to beyond mad if I have given 11 days of my life up only not to have surgery. Need some advice fast please. Been trying to handle this but emotion is getting the best of me now. I can't believe they waited all this time to tell you that? Wish I had some ready answers, but I don't. Insurance will not cover it? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NikiG 113 Posted December 2, 2012 I asked the same thing why so they did not talk to me sooner. We started this process in March. Applied for medical loan on Friday and stayed on liquid diet. We will see on Monday. Fingers crossed & sending prayers your way Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk Share this post Link to post Share on other sites