jayla_mom_of2 25 Posted October 20, 2012 I have not had my surgery yet but I was wondering about something. I've been overweight a long time. Do you think that makes a difference in your excess skin rather than someone who's only been overweight maybe 5 years or so? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
makemyownluck 785 Posted October 20, 2012 i worry about the same thing! overweight my whole life - and VERY overweight at that. if you already have a problem with a hanging stomach (there are some big people who have big stomachs, but they don't hang - mostly men!) then it's still gonna hang when you lose weight. The best thing you can do is work out to tone up your body, but considering how quickly you lose with rny, it's inevitable. You can't argue with gravity. However, skin is an organ and very elastic, and eventually it will tighten up SOME on its own. Again, working out will help this process along. Saunas or red light therapy could help and some spas offer wraps or massages targets to weight loss surgery patients that can help firm up the skin. There is no miracle cure to it, though. And a Tummy Tuck is a thousand times more painful than the rny itself with longer healing time. What I know is that my body is a mess as it is right now. Having surgery will slim me down, but I'm still gonna have flab, stretch marks, varicose veins, etc - those things will require more work after surgery. Even if I have to wear Spanx with everything - if I can get into "normal size" clothes - that's a victory. If I can get off bp meds, that's a victory. If I can go hiking for miles and miles with my friends - that's a victory! There's options to get rid of skin, or you can learn to live with it. You're gonna be so much happier when you have your life back!! Good luck to us ALL! 1 Breamos21 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dorky_kelly 4 Posted October 22, 2012 I'm worried about loose skin as well. I was wondering if people wear Shapewear? Does it become part of your daily wardrobe? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted October 22, 2012 I'm worried about loose skin as well. I was wondering if people wear Shapewear? Does it become part of your daily wardrobe? Yes I wear shape wear most of the time. Lately it has become part if my wardrobe. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ellie_Grace 271 Posted October 22, 2012 Shapewear is not part of my wardrobe, but I am beginning to think it should. I kinda want to lose a bit more before I get some because of the cost. But yes I have issues with a bit of the hang and I was 261 (275 a year before) and I still have 40 some pounds left to go. I bought my first pair of Spanx this weekend to wear with my dress I bought, so I will see how that works this weekend. My biggest concern is my arms, they are so flappy, they might knock someone over if they stand close enough to me. UGH!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JustJenn 542 Posted October 22, 2012 I know I'm going to have hanging belly there is no hope there. But that doesn't bother me as much as my arms.... My arms ugh! Surgery 7/25/12 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted October 23, 2012 Shapewear is not part of my wardrobe' date=' but I am beginning to think it should. I kinda want to lose a bit more before I get some because of the cost. But yes I have issues with a bit of the hang and I was 261 (275 a year before) and I still have 40 some pounds left to go. I bought my first pair of Spanx this weekend to wear with my dress I bought, so I will see how that works this weekend. My biggest concern is my arms, they are so flappy, they might knock someone over if they stand close enough to me. UGH!![/quote'] They sale something for the arm. I saw it on eBay. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2ndTimesTheCharm 68 Posted October 24, 2012 Shapewear is not part of my wardrobe' date=' but I am beginning to think it should. I kinda want to lose a bit more before I get some because of the cost. But yes I have issues with a bit of the hang and I was 261 (275 a year before) and I still have 40 some pounds left to go. I bought my first pair of Spanx this weekend to wear with my dress I bought, so I will see how that works this weekend. My biggest concern is my arms, they are so flappy, they might knock someone over if they stand close enough to me. UGH!![/quote'] Google slimpressions....they have great compression garments. I bought the t-shirt one and it really kept things tight.tightens the tummy back and arms... looks like a 3/4 length sleeve t-shirt but the front part was scooped out so that it doesn't squish your boobies. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TinyMamiOf3kids 1,280 Posted October 24, 2012 Google slimpressions....they have great compression garments. I bought the t-shirt one and it really kept things tight.tightens the tummy back and arms... looks like a 3/4 length sleeve t-shirt but the front part was scooped out so that it doesn't squish your boobies. I'm gonna check this out Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dorky_kelly 4 Posted October 24, 2012 Me too! Thanks for the link! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ellie_Grace 271 Posted October 25, 2012 Me too. Thanks so much!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kristy3k 1,133 Posted October 25, 2012 thanks for the info Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kiwiladydee 402 Posted October 25, 2012 Did anyone have issues with their thighs?? Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GastricJoy 9 Posted October 25, 2012 Did anyone have issues with their thighs?? Sent from my iPhone using RNYTalk My thighs are slimming slowly. I can wear a 14 but because of my thighs it make it uncomfortable. Sent from my Android Phone using RNYTalk Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GastricJoy 9 Posted October 25, 2012 Burlington Coat Factory have nice ones for cheap price. Sent from my Android Phone using RNYTalk Share this post Link to post Share on other sites