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Haha,..

My surgeon saids a week,,, honestly I feel ok to it but I'm too damm tired!

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sheesh all you frisky people! I'm still pre-op but the pre-op diet has shut down my libido completely... don't know what I'll be like post op, but at least I don't have anyone elses "needs" to consider in this way...

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Me too ,,, I really have no libido!

This is a problem my husband wants it , but I don't have the libido for it....

Any ideas

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Some moisturiser, tissues and a dirty magazine?

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I waited four weeks

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I'm still waiting lol.

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So question... I thought the surgery makes u very gassy so I would assume waiting is not an option.

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Oh thank god Im not the only one with no libido! I'm just not in the mood! Im lucky my hubby doesn't really push for it and is comfortable with self service. :) Maybe soon hahaha

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Oh thank god Im not the only one with no libido! I'm just not in the mood! Im lucky my hubby doesn't really push for it and is comfortable with self service. :) Maybe soon hahaha

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Same here. No drive at all!

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I'm a month out and have no desire.... No libido :/

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Im always in the mood. 2 months out 40 lbs lighter and feelimg very sexy. We had sex 1 month out. My husband was afraid. He not anymore. Lol

Work it baby girl, my hubby is very pleased

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Im always in the mood. 2 months out 40 lbs lighter and feelimg very sexy. We had sex 1 month out. My husband was afraid. He not anymore. Lol

I'll probably be somewhere around there

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