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Yolyann    56

Yolyann
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I feel so alone right now. I just got home yesterday, and my husband went into suegery this morning. we have a one year old that has been with my mom since I went in. so here I am at home with no husband, nor son. I don't think I have ever felt so helpless and sad like this. I can't be with my husband cuz I'm still in some pain, and I can't take care of my own son because he doesn't understand not to touch in mommy's tummy. grandma lives about 30 minutes away she feels more comfortable being at her house sitting here with me. I feel like I have no choice because she is helping me with him. yesterday when she left I didn't want to let go of my baby cried and cried and cried. I know I have to recover but I didn't want to recover by myself.

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TinyMamiOf3kids    1,280

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Wishing you a speedy recovery. Don't worry you will have your boy in no time.

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Yolyann    56

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Wishing you a speedy recovery. Don't worry you will have your boy in no time.

Thank you mami

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MsCook    38

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Aww! So sorry that you are by yourself--at least physically. We're all here for you on RNY Talk. I know it's not the same, though. Wishing you and your husband speedy recoveries in order to be back with your little one soon.

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Yolyann    56

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Aww! So sorry that you are by yourself--at least physically. We're all here for you on RNY Talk. I know it's not the same' date=' though. Wishing you and your husband speedy recoveries in order to be back with your little one soon.[/quote']

Thank you. I know this if all for the best, but at the moment it sucks.

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JustJenn    542

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This is the best time for you relax and get your healing on. As a mother of a 2 yr old I was sad but grateful I had my parents to take her for some time and my hubby worked. I was so lonely but I got to do things at my pace.

Wishing you a fast recovery and all the comfort in the world. Congrats to you and the hubby!

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Yolyann    56

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This is the best time for you relax and get your healing on. As a mother of a 2 yr old I was sad but grateful I had my parents to take her for some time and my hubby worked. I was so lonely but I got to do things at my pace.

Wishing you a fast recovery and all the comfort in the world. Congrats to you and the hubby!

Thank you so much

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    • cryoder22

      cryoder22

      Day 1 of pre-op liquid diet (3 weeks) and I'm having a hard time already. I feel hungry and just want to eat. I got the protein and supplements recommend by my program and having a hard time getting 1 down. My doctor / nutritionist has me on the following:
      1 protein shake (bariatric advantage chocolate) with 8 oz of fat free milk 1 snack = 1 unjury protein shake (root beer) 1 protein shake (bariatric advantage orange cream) 1 snack = 1 unjury protein bar 1 protein shake (bariatric advantace orange cream or chocolate) 1 snack = 1 unjury protein soup (chicken) 3 servings of sugar free jello and popsicles throughout the day. 64 oz of water (I have flavor packets). Hot tea and coffee with splenda has been approved as well. Does anyone recommend anything for the next 3 weeks?
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      1. NickelChip

        NickelChip

        All I can tell you is that for me, it got easier after the first week. The hunger pains got less intense and I kind of got used to it and gave up torturing myself by thinking about food. But if you can, get anything tempting out of the house and avoid being around people who are eating. I sent my kids to my parents' house for two weeks so I wouldn't have to prepare meals I couldn't eat. After surgery, the hunger was totally gone.

    • buildabetteranna

      buildabetteranna

      I have my final approval from my insurance, only thing holding up things is one last x-ray needed, which I have scheduled for the fourth of next month, which is my birthday.

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    • BetterLeah

      BetterLeah

      Woohoo! I have 7 more days till surgery, So far I am already down a total of 20lbs since I started this journey. 
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      1. NeonRaven8919

        NeonRaven8919

        Well done! I'm 9 days away from surgery! Keep us updated!

    • Ladiva04

      Ladiva04

      Hello,
      I had my surgery on the 25th of June of this year. Starting off at 117 kilos.😒
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      1. NeonRaven8919

        NeonRaven8919

        Congrats on the surgery!

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      I’m 6 days post op as of today. I had the gastric bypass 
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