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Hiiii everyone!!! Wife and mom of 2 year old here. 25 years old,BMI 50 AND I'M 5'6. before today I was really debating the band and rny. After my visit with the surgeon today he really put it into perspective for me and Ive finally decided for the bypass. A part of me is very terrified and the sleeve seems way to drastic. My biggest fear is the healing process (my c section was bad) I also got Bels palsy after delivery on the left side of my face. Thank God it only lasted for 2 months. I'm just scared of internal bleeding and the staples. This app is great and u all are super supportive!!! My last dietitian appt is Sep 5th then pre-op is Sept 17th!!!! I just have a huge fear of "everything coming undone inside of me" I guess it sounds crazy but I'm def ready to make the changes for a healthier me.

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It's a hard decision to make, but you made it :) your fears are reasonable. Im a mom of 1 and also had a csection, but because the surgery was my choice it made it ok. Do all the research and write down all of your questions for your dr. If all else bring it here.

All the luck!

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Thx Jenn!! One baby is enough for me LOL its like after I had her the weight jjust stuck to me!!! I do 45 min of cardio and I've only lost about 14 pounds in the last 3 months

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