Major gripe

[anonemouse 1]

What is with people saying that comments are welcome and then turning into brats (not the word I want, but nicer than what I would have said) when the comments aren't what they wanted? If you only want complimentary comments, say so in your original post. Don't tell us that "all comments are welcome" and then go off when you get comments that, although they are honest, aren't in the range of "Oh you poor baby, you are always right and they are always wrong! You are so picked upon!"

[Jachut 487]

I know, some posts do turn out like that. Others are great debates that stay reasonable. It does depend on how sensitive the OP is on the issue and how tactful people are if they are disagreeing or saying something not so complementary.