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Hi I am New to the site . Just looking for support. My surgery will be scheduled for august.

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My surgery will be in September! I am nervous too, but also really excited.

What are you most nervous about? For me I am most nervous about the pain post-op.

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I had surgery last Thursday . I was in Walmart today walking just fine ! The gas pain is what really hurts the most ! I had virtually no pain from the surgery ! Just the horrid gas ( still have it) !

Congrats ! You soon will be on the losers bench ! You are almost there !!

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My surgery will be in September! I am nervous too' date=' but also really excited.

What are you most nervous about? For me I am most nervous about the pain post-op.[/quote']

I am very nervous about the pain because I not sure if it will be done Lap or open. I am told the recovery is longer for the open procedure. I still learning how to use this app

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I, too am new this site. I'm getting scared about the pain. Mine is scheduled for August 14th. I am a wuss when it comes to pain!

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I never had any pain medicine at all. Honestly had no pain. I had some soreness when getting up but that went away in a few days. I know everyone is different but don't stress over the pain....even if you have any it will be over quick! Best of luck!

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I, too am new this site. I'm getting scared about the pain. Mine is scheduled for August 14th. I am a wuss when it comes to pain!

Hi, You appear to be as nervous as I am. I would like to add you as a friend. I donot have my exact date yet but I have class this afternoon and my last class is Aug 1st. I preparing my family at this stage for what to come. :rolleyes:

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Hi' date=' You appear to be as nervous as I am. I would like to add you as a friend. I donot have my exact date yet but I have class this afternoon and my last class is Aug 1st. I preparing my family at this stage for what to come. :rolleyes:[/quote']

For sure. I've told my family and friends. My anxiety was on high, but I got through that. The roughest part is that I'm paying for it. My insurance has some stupid clause that I don't qualify. But I need this. I'm tired of being inactive due to my weight. I want my life back!

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For sure. I've told my family and friends. My anxiety was on high, but I got through that. The roughest part is that I'm paying for it. My insurance has some stupid clause that I don't qualify. But I need this. I'm tired of being inactive due to my weight. I want my life back!

:blink: wow, that has to be very hard . I cannot imagine how much that will set you back. I still paying bills from preop stuff

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:blink: wow' date=' that has to be very hard . I cannot imagine how much that will set you back. I still paying bills from preop stuff[/quote']

Thank God for low interest loans. I guess I'll be more motivated to get and keep the weight off since I'm paying for it.

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Thank God for low interest loans. I guess I'll be more motivated to get and keep the weight off since I'm paying for it.

I'm in the same way 25+k but only doing a lone for 10k but feel the same way it's got to be done :) Ty I have a good job :)

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I had to do self pay also...... It's worth every penny!!

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I'm in the same way 25+k but only doing a lone for 10k but feel the same way it's got to be done :) Ty I have a good job :)

I'm a teacher, but my hubby has a good job. I told him it was my anniversary gift since the day of the operation is our 13th anniversary. It's costing $19,500.

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I had to do self pay also...... It's worth every penny!!

That's what I think as well I will be setting money aside for skin removal the day my RNY is done lmao ;) one really good thing about self pay a lot less hoops to jump ;) and noone to tell me no! Lol

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